DH has two cans of beer 5 night per week! At my wits end!

Anonymous
That is so, so messed up! Our kids are teens and this is a terrible example! He says he doesn't have a drinking problem!
I mean, he clearly does have a problem! He says I am a nag, insane and to stop being so controlling.
Anonymous
He doesn’t drink on the weekends?
Anonymous
I’m, 2 cans a beer per night 5 nights a week does not seem excessive. That’s like 2 glasses of wine. I don’t drink at all myself but that wouldn’t worry me in the slightest. What problem is it causing?
Anonymous
For an average-sized man, that is not a lot.
Anonymous
Even if it’s too much, unless it other negatively impacts your life, you shouldn’t say anything about it. You aren’t going to make him stop if he sees you as controlling or a nag.
Anonymous
For a man that is still in the moderate, low-risk category (if you are saying he drinks 10 drinks a week). Are there other reasons this bothers you-behavior, health?
Anonymous
Eh, unless his behavior is negatively affected or he passes out or he's routinely drinking and driving or something, I don't see the issue. It's only "clearly" a problem if it's clearly causing a problem.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:He doesn’t drink on the weekends?

He does. Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and Monday. Thursday is almost Friday. Monday, since the hard work after the weekend!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:For an average-sized person, that is not a lot.


+1
Anonymous
Uh you are indeed being a nag
Anonymous
He doesn’t drink at all Tuesday and Wednesday? Lay off, it’s fine.
Anonymous
Troll piggybacking on other recent alcohol threads.
Anonymous
It is causing a problem as kids now want a beer.
Anonymous
How big is he (height/weight)? Is it affecting his health or behavior?
Anonymous
You can’t be for real. What is the actual problem? Does he get inebriated and actually act different?
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