I’m interested in him...he likes my sister’s sexual pictures?

Anonymous
So I met this guy about 2 months ago and we exchanged numbers. We’re not exclusive or anything like that, I’m just very very interested in him. He’s one of the nicest guys that I’ve met. My sister already knew him beforehand, sort of, and they started following each other on social media 2 months before he and I met. Now my sister is very popular on Instagram -17k followers. She does boudoir, lingerie, and nude shoots. The guy I’m interested in likes her pictures, not all of them but he still likes them. For example, yesterday she posted a picture of herself just barely covering her n*pples with her hand and he liked that picture. Or when she posted herself in the shower nude, a$$ out, and barely covered her parts with the shower curtain he liked that picture too. You guys get the idea.

So what does that say if he’s liking my sister’s semi-nude, overtly sexual pictures? Is he not interested in me?
Anonymous
How old are you and your sister?
Anonymous
Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


How is he gross? If he’s not interested in OP then what’s the problem?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.
Anonymous
Does he know that you two are sisters? If so, that is very weird of him. However, even if that is a no, I would still would not be interested in a grown man liking nudes of another person online for all to see and know about. I wouldn’t be interested in him let alone worried about it he was interested in me
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.


This makes it a tad less weird to me. Perhaps he thinks the shots are well staged, have great lighting, etc. Many photogs see naked women all of the time. He knew your sister before he knew you. He may like ten other women's naked pictures at the same time he's liking your sister's pics.

I wouldn't say this is a deal breaker. It's all what you are comfortable with.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.


This makes it a tad less weird to me. Perhaps he thinks the shots are well staged, have great lighting, etc. Many photogs see naked women all of the time. He knew your sister before he knew you. He may like ten other women's naked pictures at the same time he's liking your sister's pics.

I wouldn't say this is a deal breaker. It's all what you are comfortable with.


Disagree, even if he sees the artist value in the pictures IF he was interested in OP he wouldn’t like her nude pictures. He can like other non-nude pictures. They’re sisters
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.


This makes it a tad less weird to me. Perhaps he thinks the shots are well staged, have great lighting, etc. Many photogs see naked women all of the time. He knew your sister before he knew you. He may like ten other women's naked pictures at the same time he's liking your sister's pics.

I wouldn't say this is a deal breaker. It's all what you are comfortable with.



He's a photographer. HAHAHA! OP I run in legit photographer circles, legit photographers are not likin instathot pictures on their public profiles. Your sister is not a model or even posing for artistic nudes she's doing insta thot phots. It's completely inappropriate regardless of his profession to be liking the nude or semi-nude photos of the sister of the woman he is trying to pursue.

It's weirs that you are trying to get with him knowing he and your sister have this kind of dynamic going on. I suspect you and your sister are competitive with each other. I suspect this man was trying to use you to get to your sister at best.

You need to drop him and you all need to grow the hell up!
Anonymous
Your sister is the one I’d be concerned with. She’s the one posing naked.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.


This makes it a tad less weird to me. Perhaps he thinks the shots are well staged, have great lighting, etc. Many photogs see naked women all of the time. He knew your sister before he knew you. He may like ten other women's naked pictures at the same time he's liking your sister's pics.

I wouldn't say this is a deal breaker. It's all what you are comfortable with.


Disagree, even if he sees the artist value in the pictures IF he was interested in OP he wouldn’t like her nude pictures. He can like other non-nude pictures. They’re sisters



Exactly any man with sense and good intentions knows this. So op you are dating a moronic, fboi whose perving on your sister. Do you need this in you life? It's the second day of the new year do better for yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.


This makes it a tad less weird to me. Perhaps he thinks the shots are well staged, have great lighting, etc. Many photogs see naked women all of the time. He knew your sister before he knew you. He may like ten other women's naked pictures at the same time he's liking your sister's pics.

I wouldn't say this is a deal breaker. It's all what you are comfortable with.


Disagree, even if he sees the artist value in the pictures IF he was interested in OP he wouldn’t like her nude pictures. He can like other non-nude pictures. They’re sisters



Exactly any man with sense and good intentions knows this. So op you are dating a moronic, fboi whose perving on your sister. Do you need this in you life? It's the second day of the new year do better for yourself.


Can we stop blaming the guy for a second? Just because SHES interested in him doesn’t mean that he’s interested in her. There’s nothing wrong with liking pictures of people that you have no romantic ties with.
Anonymous
This is definitely not a good situation, OP. He's probably doing more with your sister's pictures than just liking them. Gross.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.


+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.


She’s not a cam girl. He’s a photographer so he knew her beforehand as I mentioned in the OP.


This makes it a tad less weird to me. Perhaps he thinks the shots are well staged, have great lighting, etc. Many photogs see naked women all of the time. He knew your sister before he knew you. He may like ten other women's naked pictures at the same time he's liking your sister's pics.

I wouldn't say this is a deal breaker. It's all what you are comfortable with.



He's a photographer. HAHAHA! OP I run in legit photographer circles, legit photographers are not likin instathot pictures on their public profiles. Your sister is not a model or even posing for artistic nudes she's doing insta thot phots. It's completely inappropriate regardless of his profession to be liking the nude or semi-nude photos of the sister of the woman he is trying to pursue.

It's weirs that you are trying to get with him knowing he and your sister have this kind of dynamic going on. I suspect you and your sister are competitive with each other. I suspect this man was trying to use you to get to your sister at best.

You need to drop him and you all need to grow the hell up!


This. I know male photographers who do professional, artistic “sexy” photos, and the last thing they want to do is go home and creep on someone’s soft core IG pics. Most are also sick to death of models and don’t want to spend their free time dealing with them.

I’d never date a guy who was into those IG accounts. It’s so weird and creepy to me.
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