Um, i post half naked pics of myself, but mostly my legs on Instagram! Mother of 4, not a ho, plenty of photographers follow me, along with some cross dressers, other straight women who like hosiery, lesbians, single men and I bet quite a few of your husbands since I have 186k followers. Anyway OP, he knew your sister first but is interested in you! Who cares if he likes your sisters pictures, at least he’s not hiding it! Life is too short to worry about BS, if you like him, go for it. It’s just a picture!! And yes, my husband knows. |
| OP, you have to know this crowd. DCUM leans older and less open-minded then it professes. Social media platforms like IG and TikTok are beyond them and they view users with a certain amount of disdain. |
I ran this by my 21-year-old sister. She thinks the guy is a creep . |
| If he was supportive of her before you there’s no reason to think he wouldn’t be supportive of her after. Double tapping on a picture to like it takes about a millisecond worth of effort as you are scrolling by; I wouldn’t be too worried that he sitting there poring over her pictures with his pants around his ankles. |
+1 |
That’s one way to think. Another is that any accomplished, smart, beautiful woman with self-esteem and a head on her shoulders wouldn’t spend time posting her nudes for creeps to gawk at. I played a college sport, majored in STEM and modeled for a catalog on the side. I later got a law degree nights while working my Fed day job. It baffles me this is what young women do and they’re mothers don’t have a problem with it. I guess their moms are the same type of “lady”. I’m glad I didn’t grow up with this kind of stupidity sh@t. |
| ^their |
| Grown mature men don’t look at IG wanna be models. |
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If he knows her (personally, not just online) and is liking suggestive photos, I think that is flirtatious. (Making his attraction known to her.)
I would not date a guy that does this. And I think you would feel weird at future gatherings, with your family, knowing he thinks your sister is sexy. Whole set up is weird. You should move on to a less messy situation. |
| And more interested guy. |
Oh shut up. |
Life was different in the 1970s. |
| I think you should move to a different city than your sister and find separate friends. |
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Maybe it’s ok for women to make a living as social media influencers?
Maybe it’s ok for men to support them? Maybe we can try to unclench in 2021? |
Thank you. Times are different. It doesn’t make men gross for liking their pictures and it doesn’t make women “hoes” for showing off their bodies. |