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I was naked this morning and I come cuddle close to my husband and try to kiss him. He wakes up and gives me a small kiss. I try to cuddle him and tell him I am in the mood. He says "stop, I am sleepy!" I say..."but I'm in the mood." He says, "stop it!"
At this point I am hurt. I sigh and get up. He yells, "go pout! I don't care!" I am making coffee and crying.
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| Oh please. He is your husband. Don’t be a baby and make this a thing. Try again some other time. |
| wtf is wrong with you |
| Men get turned down by their wives all the time and they don’t cry about it. And if it happens too often they look elsewhere. |
| Sorry. My DH can be cruel as well. I don't know why I put up with it. |
| Maybe he’s mad you woke himup? |
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For it to be consensual, yes, you both need to be in the mood. Sorry he wasn’t. Not the end of the world.
I mean, seriously, imagine your daughter telling you, “I didn’t want to do it but he pouted and said, ‘but *I* WANT to,’ so I caved.” Not healthy. |
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He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.
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OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it. |
Some people really don’t want to be woken up for sex. Even a man by a hot woman. Not hard to understand. How have you and your DH survived marriage if you are this clueless? |
Maybe you're not as hot as you think. Insecurity is a real turn off. |
I don't like to be woken up by anyone for anything. |
Also if I made a list of times of day I would want sex, "right after I wake up" would be dead last, even after "when I need to poop." |
He doesn't. And he told you so. But you kept insisting. He was rude also, but he didn't become rude until you weren't taking his no for answer. |
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Does he often turn you down for sex?
I will say it's unusual in my experience. Most guys wake up with wood and would take you up on that. |