Is this a normal intercation?

Anonymous
I was naked this morning and I come cuddle close to my husband and try to kiss him. He wakes up and gives me a small kiss. I try to cuddle him and tell him I am in the mood. He says "stop, I am sleepy!" I say..."but I'm in the mood." He says, "stop it!"

At this point I am hurt. I sigh and get up. He yells, "go pout! I don't care!"

I am making coffee and crying.
Anonymous
Oh please. He is your husband. Don’t be a baby and make this a thing. Try again some other time.
Anonymous
wtf is wrong with you
Anonymous
Men get turned down by their wives all the time and they don’t cry about it. And if it happens too often they look elsewhere.
Anonymous
Sorry. My DH can be cruel as well. I don't know why I put up with it.
Anonymous
Maybe he’s mad you woke himup?
Anonymous
For it to be consensual, yes, you both need to be in the mood. Sorry he wasn’t. Not the end of the world.

I mean, seriously, imagine your daughter telling you, “I didn’t want to do it but he pouted and said, ‘but *I* WANT to,’ so I caved.” Not healthy.
Anonymous
He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.



OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.



OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.


Some people really don’t want to be woken up for sex. Even a man by a hot woman. Not hard to understand. How have you and your DH survived marriage if you are this clueless?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.



OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.


Maybe you're not as hot as you think. Insecurity is a real turn off.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.



OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.


I don't like to be woken up by anyone for anything.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.



OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.


I don't like to be woken up by anyone for anything.


Also if I made a list of times of day I would want sex, "right after I wake up" would be dead last, even after "when I need to poop."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.



OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.


He doesn't. And he told you so. But you kept insisting. He was rude also, but he didn't become rude until you weren't taking his no for answer.
Anonymous
Does he often turn you down for sex?
I will say it's unusual in my experience. Most guys wake up with wood and would take you up on that.
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