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Anonymous wrote:OP, yeah, I get it. My DH has turned down sex once and that hurt me. But your DH was rude. It is unusual for men to turn down a naked woman. But, he could have been tired. Exhausted. When was the last time you had sex? Have you turned him down a lot? Is he seeing anybody else? Emotional affair?
OP here. Well, to be fair he had a very long busy work day yesterday and was writing for his work late into the night. So I believe he was exhausted. I just woke up horny and thought a quicky and going back to sleep would be fun for him. But alas! Not only was I turned down but so cruelly.
OP you need to use your brain a little more in these interactions. DH would have hollered too; so would I; no one wants to be woken up. And he stayed up late too! And you knew it!
Your life isn’t a soap opera show where people leap up to have sex at every opportunity. Now you know he’s not a morning sex kind of guy so don’t do it again.
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I don't think he was rude until you kept pushing and pushing. He said he was sleepy (and you knew he had been up late and was probably really tired), you kept pushing, he said stop, you kept pushing . . . not cool. Swap the genders and tell me people wouldn't be screaming that he was in the wrong.
OP here. What do you do if you want sex and your spouse always turns you down?
do what men have to do - go to a quiet place in the house/apartment and rub one out. Stop being such a prissy little b*tch. you pushed him too far and despite him clearly communicating to you, you ignored him.
imagine him trying to come on to you when you're exhausted and you just want to sleep. you tell him know several times and he doesn't listen. what would your reaction be? you'd lash out too and saying anything different is just a lie, and you know it.