Caught him texting

[Anonymous]

I was on a date with a guy I met online the other night and I saw him texting another woman. He tried to close it up and I pretended like I didn't see and never mentioned it. It's been six weeks-ish of us dating and we haven't been intimate. I'm trying to think about how to bring it up to him or am I being super petty?

[Anonymous]

What is it you want to say, or know? Don’t bring up the texting but instead just go right to the thing you really want to know, like if he’s dating other women or whatever.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty rude to do it while on a date with you, but if you're not exclusive he's not doing anything wrong by talking to other women.

[Anonymous]

How has it been six weeks if you just met him online the other night?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is it you want to say, or know? Don’t bring up the texting but instead just go right to the thing you really want to know, like if he’s dating other women or whatever.

+1

Although, I'd say you already know that (1) he's dating other women, or at least open to it, and (2) he's unable to restrain himself from texting them while on a date with you.

[Anonymous]

I might be time to get down with the phucking or you will lose his interest. I mean, six weeks sounds like game playing. Many people get it on immediately. You need to put out if you want a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I might be time to get down with the phucking or you will lose his interest. I mean, six weeks sounds like game playing. Many people get it on immediately. You need to put out if you want a relationship.

Get back to class!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is it you want to say, or know? Don’t bring up the texting but instead just go right to the thing you really want to know, like if he’s dating other women or whatever.

+1

Although, I'd say you already know that (1) he's dating other women, or at least open to it, and (2) he's unable to restrain himself from texting them while on a date with you.

OP here. Good point. I meant to say we had a date last night, not that we met last night. I guess I was hoping that we were moving toward exclusivity, and it hurt. I get that he couldn't restrain himself, but it was more the realization that he's actively pursuing other women, when it seemed like things were going really well.

[Anonymous]

Other woman was probably his mom or sister, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is it you want to say, or know? Don’t bring up the texting but instead just go right to the thing you really want to know, like if he’s dating other women or whatever.

+1

Although, I'd say you already know that (1) he's dating other women, or at least open to it, and (2) he's unable to restrain himself from texting them while on a date with you.

OP here. Good point. I meant to say we had a date last night, not that we met last night. I guess I was hoping that we were moving toward exclusivity, and it hurt. I get that he couldn't restrain himself, but it was more the realization that he's actively pursuing other women, when it seemed like things were going really well.

Chicken and egg thing. You want exclusivity but by now he may have guessed that he isn’t going to ever be balls deep in you so we is naturally keeping his options open.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Other woman was probably his mom or sister, lol.

What I saw him texting was clearly a romantic interest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's pretty rude to do it while on a date with you, but if you're not exclusive he's not doing anything wrong by talking to other women.

This and why aren't you having sex?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, just move on. Do you really want to be wasting time with someone who has the attention span of a goldfish and lacks the good sense to cover it up?

[Anonymous]

Seriously, what a loser. There's something seriously wrong if he can't go out for a few hours without texting another human being, let alone another woman while he's on a date! DTMF!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, just move on. Do you really want to be wasting time with someone who has the attention span of a goldfish and lacks the good sense to cover it up?

This, op. You want exclusivity, he doesn’t. Don’t waste your time.