New partner texts my neighbors, friends, and family

[Anonymous]

And doesn't include me. He also doesn't tell me. I think this is weird. For one neighbor in particular, who is much older than me and dislikes how long I keep my lawn and my garden, he seems to go out of his way to be friendly with her. She's nice, in general, so I ignore her landscape preferences. But she gets all excited when she sees him.

He also tries to co-opt his brother's friends. He became enraged when his brother met up with a bunch of long time friends and didn't invite him.

He isn't on speaking terms with most of his neighbors (there are only a few).

Is this weird?

[Anonymous]

Yes he's weird. Break up quick

[Anonymous]

Weird. I agree that you should move on.

[Anonymous]

Weird could be endearingly weird, but if he's not on speaking terms with his own neighbors, it's creepy weird. Would break up asap

[Anonymous]

I hope you have googled him and checked the area’s court systems.

[Anonymous]

Bizarre. Don’t waste your time.

[Anonymous]

Why the hell does he have the phone numbers of your neighbors, friends and family?

RUN

[Anonymous]

Why on earth does he have all their numbers?!?

[Anonymous]

GTFO!

[Anonymous]

I'll echo the chorus of why does he have all their numbers?!

[Anonymous]

It isn't weird that he is friendly with your neighbors, it is weird that he isn't on good terms with his own neighbors. It is not just a eed flag, but a flashing neon sign reading 'this way to crazytown' that he became 'enraged' at his brother making plans without him.

[Anonymous]

OP here. He asked them for their numbers, was included on texts, etc.

I don't get it. At all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He asked them for their numbers, was included on texts, etc.

I don't get it. At all.

Very weird/annoying.

Run.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He asked them for their numbers, was included on texts, etc.

I don't get it. At all.

Look, the guy is a nutter, don't waste a lot of time wondering why he's a nutter. Spend that time figuring out how to get away from the nutter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He asked them for their numbers, was included on texts, etc.

I don't get it. At all.

Da fuq!

Ghost him, make sure everyone you know , knows you are not seeing him any more and it is a matter of safety, and you appreciate it if they cease communication with him, and definately cannot communicate your wheareabouts to him.

Be prepared to seek a restraining order.


Be able to defend yourself.