Neighbors from hellllll y’all won’t believe this one

[Anonymous]

I live in a town house in a nice normal desirable area. We are renters in our upper twenties. The people next door built our townhouse they do not own it they are not our landlords but they act like they own it. Our landlords are friends with these people. They are close to 70. We are very quiet we don’t drink play music or have friends over and have always kept our yard up. We used to be friendly with them and would say hello and one point I’d even have full on conversations. Anyways I saw her walking through our yard back in August and she didn’t even acknowledge me. I was out watering our plants from the second story deck. I said with a tone what are you doing? She says doing what I’ve been doing for 15 years taking care of this place. When that’s not true she acts likes it’s hers. She then comes back around from behind our house on the phone with our landlord and says I just got done taking to your little c*unt A$$ b!tch tenant. I go excuse me I can hear you and she told me to go F myself and told me how much of a W hore I am and told me to go suck some old d!cks. I told her she was effing crazy and went in. The husband then comes banging on my door and says I sprayed her with the hose?! And harassed me and told me he’s not tolerating this. I recorded that with my phone. Our camera caught her in our driveway but you can’t hear the argument

Fast forward to now we own a patch of grass outside which my dogs poop on. One day I didn’t pick it up and she put a note in my mailbox. Next week I see him using the half of our yard which Is closest to his house but is our property. He’s on his hand and knees “cutting the grass”. And then they’ve been leaving this old rusted bike when they don’t have kids in our yard.sayijf oh it keeps people from turning around down here creepy right. So I’ve now been letting my dogs poop and not pick it up for days. So today my dog pooped its been thirty min I go walk come home and wham there’s poop scattered all over our driveway. Our camera caught poop flying in the air . She’s throwing our dogs poop into our driveway. Advice? We are currently looking for our dream home and our lease is month to month

[Anonymous]

Hope you find your home soon.

[Anonymous]

Shrug. It's temporary. Don't know why you would let your dog poop and not pick it up though. That's nasty.

[Anonymous]

Do not engage. Set up additional cameras that has a view of your entire house. Move.

[Anonymous]

Just pick up the dog poop. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

You need to pick your dog poop up and double down on finding a house to buy to get out of there.

Crazy people are the main reason we decided to buy a SFH in a less nice area, versus a townhouse in a nicer area. I need land to separate me from the crazy.

[Anonymous]

If this is true and not a troll...then you need to contact your landlord and complain. You should have done that with the 1st interaction in August. If your landlord doesn't want to get involved then I would look up the landlord/tenant rules in your area. There are usually rules about notifications for inspections (usually at least a requirement for 24 hours notice). Remind your landlord that anyone inspecting the property on their behalf must follow these guidelines which means this woman cannot simply walk into you backyard without notifying you first. You can file a complaint against the landlord if it happens again.

As for the other things, I would ignore them. They are trying to get a rise out of you. There may also be a mental health aspect to the situation.

Also, clean up after your dog. It's simple and falling into their games of refusing to pick it up for days is just juvenile and won't get you anywhere. I would be pissed if the poop was thrown into my driveway, but don't give them any ammunition in the first place.

The last thing, find a house quickly so you can get the hell out of there. Luckily, you're month to month.

[Anonymous]

Spray them with the hose! Please report back.

[Anonymous]

They might be going senile. Get cameras that record sound and document everything.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like our neighbor, but after years of leaving letters at our door, banging on the wall and coming to our door, they are calling the security. Security would know on our door in the middle of the night to tell us that neighbor is complaining about us. Besides in the middle of the night knocks on the door, we get e-mails from security and calls the next day to let us know that a neighbor is complaining.
Op, move out. You can't change crazy. This will happen to the next tenant and somebody will have to take out a stay-away order.

[Anonymous]

Contact your landlord in writing every time.

[Anonymous]

Op here I know I need to pick up the poop. And yes when I’m in public I always always pick it up. But it’s our property and I may go a few days sometimes, but now with the notes and having poop thrown into my driveway... just because my dog poops on my property doesn’t give someone that right

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If this is true and not a troll...then you need to contact your landlord and complain. You should have done that with the 1st interaction in August. If your landlord doesn't want to get involved then I would look up the landlord/tenant rules in your area. There are usually rules about notifications for inspections (usually at least a requirement for 24 hours notice). Remind your landlord that anyone inspecting the property on their behalf must follow these guidelines which means this woman cannot simply walk into you backyard without notifying you first. You can file a complaint against the landlord if it happens again.

As for the other things, I would ignore them. They are trying to get a rise out of you. There may also be a mental health aspect to the situation.

Also, clean up after your dog. It's simple and falling into their games of refusing to pick it up for days is just juvenile and won't get you anywhere. I would be pissed if the poop was thrown into my driveway, but don't give them any ammunition in the first place.

The last thing, find a house quickly so you can get the hell out of there. Luckily, you're month to month.

Not a troll the problem is our landlords are bff with people next door. I’m going to be the bigger person. It’s like I want to retaliate but can’t I will just ignore and go on until we find a house.

[Anonymous]

Could be dementia. I'd record her if it's legal.

[Anonymous]

let them know about your covid + testing, cough, cough...