Things a kid should know by 8-9

Anonymous
DH and I are trying to figure out some life skills and things ds should know by the time he turns 8. Not education based. I'm talking things like

Riding a 2 wheeler
Tying shoes
Skipping

Those are things we know he should be able to do (and he does) but I'm crowd sourcing to add to that list!

TIA!!
Anonymous
Laundry basics (load, detergent, shift to dryer)
Dishwasher
Microwave
Vacuum & sweep
Basic bathroom cleaning
Anonymous
My soon to be 9 year old can fix what internet issues we have. No idea what he does.
Anonymous
Basic cooking
- make mac and cheese
- make a sandwich
- make toast

How to set a table
Anonymous
How to dial 911 in an emergency.
Look both ways when crossing street.
Bathe or shower by himself.
Make a sandwich.
Feed the pets.
Anonymous
Swimming
Anonymous
- How to buy something in a store
- How to give a proper apology (not the typical I'm sorry if you feel upset because you're sensitive bs)
- How to cook some basic things - eggs, pasta, reheating, tea, etc.
- How to give directions - school to home, etc.
- How to compare prices (price per ounce)
- How to be a good guest in someone's home
Anonymous
Some of these are so good!

Seconding the cleaning skills, cooking skills, and the apology one.
Anonymous
Op here.

Love these! Some are on our list or things he knows but we've got a great list now of things to learn. Ds was super excited to learn laundry. Less so when I told him he had to keep helping with it lol
Anonymous
Navigate neighborhood without parental instruction (how to find way home)
Anonymous
DS and I made up a list for turning 7:

-Swim and pass water survival (get thrown into the pool fully dressed including shoes)

- Pump own swing (he was super late to this one)

- Tell time

- Tie shoes

- ride a two wheeler

- make own breakfast

- set a table

- do own laundry

It was fun to do big air-checks everytime he accomplished one.


Love the other suggestions for this coming year!


Anonymous
Be approximately 1.5 to 2 years ahead in math, compared what's require per common core at that age.

Sorry
Anonymous
Mac n cheese is a bit ambitious, no? Unless they are reheating?

How to put away laundry
How to set/clear the table
Which bus lines (or train) go past their house and where they go
How to buy something in a store (and get change -- my kid has forgotten to pick up change more than once!!!)
How to cross a neighborhood street at a traffic light (but at 8 I would not let my kid cross a major street -- this has more to do with drivers than it does with the child, tbh)
How to pack a bag for an overnight or a couple of nights.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Laundry basics (load, detergent, shift to dryer)
Dishwasher
Microwave
Vacuum & sweep
Basic bathroom cleaning


This is awesome. I. Going to borrow this for my 8 and 11 year old. They want to help but I haven’t had them do much housework beyonD dusting, putting away clothes, making bed. They do like to help with cooking.
Anonymous
How to read ingredient/nutrition labels and follow recipes.

How to address an envelope and write a thank you note.
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