I have a 3 year old and a 10 month old and I’m pregnant with a third. We decided two was the our max and then we accidentally got pregnant. I’m happy but kind of freaking out. Anyone can relate? Please share your story. |
Yes. 7 months ago I became pregnant nursing on mini pill. I could not imagine how wed manage but I'm so thrilled now. It will be our 4th.
Somehow things are just falling into place. |
It was no accident. |
OP here. It was. Was using protection and still got pregnant. |
The mini pill should come off the market. I know so many stories like this... |
Yes, I'm currently pregnant with a surprise 3rd. I'd guess it happens to many of us. |
Why do you do this. Why. All birth control has a failure rate, and over time, it's actually extremely likely any given person will have one accidental pregnancy. Educate yourself. |
+1 I had a surprise pregnancy while nursing in the mini-pill and no period. I would never recommend the mini-pill if you are 100% opposed to another child. |
This happened to a friend. Her oldest two are in college and her youngest just started 7th grade. He's adorable and cherished by the family. Shit happens. Babies happen. |
DP poster, but this is kind of ironic on this board. Everyone seems to Be a scientist and has examined every meta analysis about breastfeeding vs. Formula, scrutinized the numbers to .001% tolerances, but seem surprised when a birth control method with a 9% failure rate fails. |
I know, right? Under any other circumstance, if you were told your child had a 9% chance of anything you'd be on here debating, discussing, seeking advice. But no hesitation if told you have a 9% chance of conception? (royal "you" here, OP -- not meaning to knock you specifically. In fact, I could have easily found myself in your shoes and been called a hypocrite myself). |
The problem is There's no great bc. Not using condoms sorry. Estrogen pills make me ill. IUDs creep me out because everyone I know had complications. Injections make you fat.
I tell my husband if he doesn't want more kids we can't have sex. Fortunately we want a big family |
Surprise baby in our family is so loved and cherished. I cried when I found out, as it was a huge shock. Can't imagine life without her, she's 6 now. |
Really? Tell that to my cousin. 49 y/o, H with vasectomy for a while, and two kids in high school. |
Anytime you have unprotected sex, you can get pregnant! Obviously, you didn't use enough protection. Now would be a good time for your DH to get snipped. |