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I agree OP. I see this in another travel sport my kid is in (a team sport).
The "best" clubs have cherry-picked or recruited over time the most talented/most trained kids - my theory is there is a tipping point where they attract a certain type of parent who looks for that and who gets their kids lots of private lessons to be the most competitive. But, I also agree there is some nuance to this and some coaches can improve teams and even individuals, so it's not a total myth. |
That's not how it works (meaning that the most training makes you the best player). I have two girls, and have paid for the exact same amount of training for each of them. One is just a better player than the other - I love them both equally as daughters, but this is a fact. |
| Don’t think that most-trained ever meant most talented. You read that wrong. |
Describes DS to a fault. He played on a K&R style team and didn't do near as good as moving to another club that prioritized possession and technicality in the midfield. He's flourished on this new team. |
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I’ve asked this before, is kick and run the same as breaking lines with through balls and direct play? I dont think they are.
But i think the team that over emphasizes the over the top or through ball to the flag for the fast forwards from the half line every... single... time , while exciting for a 40 yard dash, is stale and lacking in development. |
No, I disagree. See bolded.
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Yes. The point is that long ball soccer, while an effective tactic for winning games especially if you have the personnel (fast forwards) and are playing against a team that has also not developed its players and playing style, is not conducive to kids developing skills they need to play any other way. The kids don't get asked to control the ball, play in tight spaces, make and recieve passes etc. So since the kids never get to practise these skills, they don't develop them either. |
| OP, you are a rich or upper middle class white person, right? I am a rich or upper middle class black person, and I am constantly shocked at how my white contemporaries baby their kids and expect them not to receive criticism from adults, or view any such criticism as inappropriate. I think it stems from the privilege that you anticipate that your kid will receive as they grown and mature, vs. the lack of privilage that I anticipate, even as an afflient person. |
Fair observation. Not sure its totally a white / black thing. It think it is upbringing and multi-generational wealth more than race, albeit obviously certain races (black) in this country have had a very disproportionate experience with lower economic status, hence the expectations you have vs. the privileged (rich/upper middle class) parents and kids. I am now upper middle class and white, but my parents were military so we were squarely middle class and for NOVA definitely not upper. That made me understand how you had to work hard and bite your tongue and deal with criticism and a lot of that as rubbed off on my kid (but not all). When she is older and has kids, I believe that two generations of upper middle class will have set in and her and her kids may act like a lot of the snobby, entitled parents you see today. But, to your point, since you are black there will always be those in a position of authority that might look down upon your kid / grandkids, or even stranger, assume that the kid is going to be super athletic because they are black and give them a hard time if they turn out not to be and then attribute it to laziness vs. the slow white kid who works hard and has IQ but is just slow. Yes, we still have a ways to go in overcoming stereotypes ... |
What total nonsense. And what on earth has it got to with the OP's post? |
No idea who you are or what color your skin is - but what you are doing is not good. Why did you say what you just said? Do you enjoy spreading hatred and dividing people agianst each other? Are you paid to do it? |
No it's not a fair observation. This is a racist comment. |
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I’ve seen POC girls for soccer get fair looks and perhaps even more opportunity from the coaches i’ve been around than their nonPOC counterparts for competitive league teams. I am fairly positive about it as I believe it’s individual development as needed but theres a point when it was obvious that coaches were trying really hard to take advantage of something that wasnt there.
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So what? You're being just as divisive as the other guy. Maybe you're the same guy trolling hard. |
Definitely not same poster. Not being divisive. I’ve seen awesome players regardless of color. Seen some awful players regardless of color. Just noted who i saw got the nod for another look and it was usually when a coach thought the player could develop with better technical skills. Often didnt happen. The ratio was definitely there. What was acceptable at a younger age for one was different for another at much older ages. I am unconcerned as long as i see opportunity and development. Not being divisive, just relaying what i saw on rosters. |