If you can’t leave your kids with family to go away...

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Anonymous wrote:We have family vacations, we are a family. We don’t travel without our kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Get that out of your system before you have kids. It isn’t about you anymore once you have kids, don’t be so selfish. Seriously.

A weekend alone with your spouse once every few years is obviously the height of selfishness.

It’s not best for the kids. And if you are a loser, you will try to justify that it’s best for the kids to have alone time.,,,blah blah. Date night is good enough.

NP I disagree. Spouse first, then kids. I swear if everyone put their spouses first there would be more happy families and less divorce.

Who said you have to leave your kids to put your spouse first?
I never have and have been married 22 years, happily.

Sorry but going on an adult vacation is completely different than family vacation. Going out to dinner after 7pm, sex in a hotel room, going out dancing until 2am, sleeping in. Those are all things I can’t do with my toddlers in tow. I really do feel connected to dh after getting away. Married happily 13 years.

13 years lol.
Maybe I’m more mature. I don't really dance or stay out until 2am.
I can go to dinner, have sex and be home for the kids that night without leaving my kids for days.

And sex with toddlers around is much easier then teens. Start coping now.

I think women like you are truly insecure their DH will leave them for another woman.

Not PP, but you sound like the insecure one. Trying to convince yourself that your marriage is great when you likely just married for the mommy martyr role and DH is now an afterthought. DH is probably bored as sh*t with you.

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Anonymous wrote:We only go away for one night at a time. Grandparents can handle that ok. If we go away for longer we take DD

Why don't you hire a sitter.

We love our kid.

If you REALLY loved her, you would nurture your marriage.

We do. Date night is perfect. We don’t need a vacation away, thank god our marriage is strong.

So, so smug. Lol.

You just KNOW PP's husband is over in the relationships forum talking about his AP.