Did the bisexual thing pass?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a phase. I am in my early 30s and as a teen about 3 of my friends claimed the same but are clearly with men now.

It is entirely possible for bi women to be in relationships with men (or for bi men to be in relationships with women). That would seem to be so obvious as to go without saying, but evidently not.

So true. My former ILs chose to ignore that my SIL had relationships with women her entire twenties because she married their son. It’s convenient for them to believe it was a phase. As a result, they were shocked when they tried to tell my DD that she would grow out of it like her aunt and aunt corrected them that she never stopped being attracted to women.

Basically some women are bi, but choose to exclusively be with a man at some point. Not a problem.

Why would they be "shocked"? Sexuality is personal and not something that has to be labeled or talked about non stop.

PSA to young people: stop talking about your sexuality with Mom Dad and relatives unless you bring a SO home or present in public as the opposite sex. They don't need to know your personal life unless it becomes public.

If oldsters REALLY believed that, they would stop asking young teen girls if they have “a little boyfriend” or saying “your husband won’t like that attitude.” My DD only refers to her sexuality to correct people who assume she’s interested in boys.

[Anonymous]

Lesbian here, married with two kids. I'm also a teacher.

I only dated boys in high school and came out as bi because it was safe. But I also lived in a very conservative area and it wasn't really safe to be out - quite literally.

In the past few years I've taught a lot of girls who have identified as bisexual or lesbian, but nearly all are now in relationships with boys.

It could go either way.

[Anonymous]

Americans are cuckoo crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK since the previous poster used the term lipstick lesbian. What is with hyper feminine high school and college women posting in pictures with their hands all over each other (e.g., hands on each other’s butts)?

Kardashian effect. I'm not hating, I'm just serious. American Meme on Netflix sort of looks at this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:(This being DCUM, I expect posts about how dare I treat it like a phase, a negative thing, whatever else. I really don’t care. Go ahead and skip this post then.)

17 yr DD never showed any leaning toward anything other than being straight until a year or so ago. Now claims to be bi. I know it’s strangely a trendy thing now.

Has your daughter had this pass and is back to being straight?

My 12 year old talks about it constantly and it’s driving us nuts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:(This being DCUM, I expect posts about how dare I treat it like a phase, a negative thing, whatever else. I really don’t care. Go ahead and skip this post then.)

17 yr DD never showed any leaning toward anything other than being straight until a year or so ago. Now claims to be bi. I know it’s strangely a trendy thing now.

Has your daughter had this pass and is back to being straight?

My 12 year old talks about it constantly and it’s driving us nuts.

If you really believe it’s just her trying to get your goat, why not act blasé? I think you are afraid it isn’t just a phase.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s a phase. I am in my early 30s and as a teen about 3 of my friends claimed the same but are clearly with men now.

It is entirely possible for bi women to be in relationships with men (or for bi men to be in relationships with women). That would seem to be so obvious as to go without saying, but evidently not.

So true. My former ILs chose to ignore that my SIL had relationships with women her entire twenties because she married their son. It’s convenient for them to believe it was a phase. As a result, they were shocked when they tried to tell my DD that she would grow out of it like her aunt and aunt corrected them that she never stopped being attracted to women.

Basically some women are bi, but choose to exclusively be with a man at some point. Not a problem.

Why would they be "shocked"? Sexuality is personal and not something that has to be labeled or talked about non stop.

PSA to young people: stop talking about your sexuality with Mom Dad and relatives unless you bring a SO home or present in public as the opposite sex. They don't need to know your personal life unless it becomes public.

If oldsters REALLY believed that, they would stop asking young teen girls if they have “a little boyfriend” or saying “your husband won’t like that attitude.” My DD only refers to her sexuality to correct people who assume she’s interested in boys.

I don't ask or comment. But they and/or you can say
.. I don't have a boyfriend, or point out that the oldsters are being sexist talking about a future husband not liking attitude.

It makes the kids lives easier not to tell all extended family members every time they decide something different. I don't ask or comment with my younger relatives because I honestly don't care who they are having sex with or kissing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s a phase. I am in my early 30s and as a teen about 3 of my friends claimed the same but are clearly with men now.

It is entirely possible for bi women to be in relationships with men (or for bi men to be in relationships with women). That would seem to be so obvious as to go without saying, but evidently not.

So true. My former ILs chose to ignore that my SIL had relationships with women her entire twenties because she married their son. It’s convenient for them to believe it was a phase. As a result, they were shocked when they tried to tell my DD that she would grow out of it like her aunt and aunt corrected them that she never stopped being attracted to women.

Basically some women are bi, but choose to exclusively be with a man at some point. Not a problem.

Why would they be "shocked"? Sexuality is personal and not something that has to be labeled or talked about non stop.

PSA to young people: stop talking about your sexuality with Mom Dad and relatives unless you bring a SO home or present in public as the opposite sex. They don't need to know your personal life unless it becomes public.

If oldsters REALLY believed that, they would stop asking young teen girls if they have “a little boyfriend” or saying “your husband won’t like that attitude.” My DD only refers to her sexuality to correct people who assume she’s interested in boys.

I don't ask or comment. But they and/or you can say
.. I don't have a boyfriend, or point out that the oldsters are being sexist talking about a future husband not liking attitude.

It makes the kids lives easier not to tell all extended family members every time they decide something different. I don't ask or comment with my younger relatives because I honestly don't care who they are having sex with or kissing.

You’re assuming it’s always a phase if you expect it to be continually changing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK since the previous poster used the term lipstick lesbian. What is with hyper feminine high school and college women posting in pictures with their hands all over each other (e.g., hands on each other’s butts)?

Don’t heterosexual young couples do that too? So many kissing and handsy pics and PDAs everywhere. Possibly more than girls touching each other considering how many more heterosexual couples there are. I guess it’s a trend or something.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote: I think the leading theory is there is a spectrum of sexuality and only a small amount of people are 100% hetero or homosexual. Yes, it is more acceptable to come out as bi so I think those who fall closer to the middle of the spectrum may feel more comfortable coming out. They may chose to be heterosexual and live a heterosexual life in the future or not.

Just want to make sure I was clear. I think people are born say homosexual or more toward that end of the spectrum. I do think those in the bi area have more choice than those who are born totally homosexual or totally heterosexual.

troll alet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:(This being DCUM, I expect posts about how dare I treat it like a phase, a negative thing, whatever else. I really don’t care. Go ahead and skip this post then.)

17 yr DD never showed any leaning toward anything other than being straight until a year or so ago. Now claims to be bi. I know it’s strangely a trendy thing now.

Has your daughter had this pass and is back to being straight?

I am a teacher and I will say that well over half of HS girls identify as bisexual, might even be close to 100%. However, the latest thing is to reject labels so instead of calling themselves bisexual, they just "like who they like", but most of them will have some sort of romantic relationship with another girl at some point during HS. I have no idea whether this "passes" after they graduate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:?!

Straight isn’t fashionable. It’s how the human race has lasted for as long as it has. How is this even up for discussion?

The world has become a very strange place.

[Anonymous]

Bisexual woman in my mid 30s here. Married to a man. My friends are all very well aware that I'm bi regardless of my current (and Hopefully forever) relationship.

I knew in my teens but never came out to my parents. I would if I were in a serious relationship with a woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are you that defensive that you can’t admit it’s the normal course of human biology? Have you noticed how the male and female parts line up?! (Am I trying to explain this to a tween???)

Penises also line up with other orifices, whether male or female. I knew a guy in college who had a thing for armpits.

And yet it takes egg and sperm for the human race to go on. So, inherently, male plus female. That’s biology stating what’s normal.

? Drinking game alert! ?

You need to take a shot every time this joker uses "normal" in a post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. My friend identified as straight in high school, lesbian and / or bi in college, and straight as an adult. Married a man by 25 and has several children.

Another female friend was straight until a bad marriage right after college, then lesbian for about 5 years, them married a man at 29.

Another friend identified as straight in high school, and lesbian in college, stayed lesbian.

Many people go thru some experimentation, it's just that years ago they wouldn't tell anyone.

Actually, years ago the vast majority of people didn't go through this type of experimentation. It's being encouraged now.