How to make her life miserable

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find a woman who is better than your ex and let her play mom to your kids. That will make her miserable.

This. Plus someone hotter, younger, and skinnier. Your ex will go bonkers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. Idk what your ex w did, but I do know some horrible women. So I am going to assume you're justified, which is a big assumption. But here goes:
1. Get in amazing shape. Truly amazing. Not just trim and toned but work on those biceps and shoulders so you're one of those guys who looks hot from behind. Get some retinol and use it every day. Consider botox. Botox also makes you look serene and relaxed so you'll look unfazed by your ex w and as though her absence has given you back several years.
2. Take up some kind of charity or humanitarian effort.
3. Up your style game.
4. Get promoted.

Okay once you have done all of this,

5. Start dating. Even with the 4 kids, women will adore you and you will end up with someone much better.

And this is just a tip. Go to church. Fix your insides.

I'm not sure church fixes anything. People seem to use religion as a crutch for insecurities. Religion is one of the big problems facing mankind, not a solution to anything. Every war ever waged had it's roots in religion. The divide our country is currently experiencing has it's roots in religion. Religion = cancer except we aren't working to cure it.

[Anonymous]

I remarried a man who has more hair, a better job, bigger bank account, and a better body. Our home is bigger and nicer, I have a nicer car and I'm in much better shape. It drives my ex crazy and it is spectacular.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So harsh, ladies, please refrain from chucking those boulders from the balconies of your glass houses...

Simply marry a hotter, younger, sweeter woman who is the ultimate stepmom to your kids as they will communicate their adoration of her and the inevitable comparisons will irritate your ex. Live happily ever after, and be sure to occasionally post photos of your new, much better life on social media. If she cares, it will bother her. If it doesn't, your family and friends will love the updates.

Hot, young, sweet women don't want to marry someone with four kids.

Depends how much money he has.

This and how much she wants to keep her hot bod, but still experience motherhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. Idk what your ex w did, but I do know some horrible women. So I am going to assume you're justified, which is a big assumption. But here goes:
1. Get in amazing shape. Truly amazing. Not just trim and toned but work on those biceps and shoulders so you're one of those guys who looks hot from behind. Get some retinol and use it every day. Consider botox. Botox also makes you look serene and relaxed so you'll look unfazed by your ex w and as though her absence has given you back several years.
2. Take up some kind of charity or humanitarian effort.
3. Up your style game.
4. Get promoted.

Okay once you have done all of this,

5. Start dating. Even with the 4 kids, women will adore you and you will end up with someone much better.

And this is just a tip. Go to church. Fix your insides.

I'm not sure church fixes anything. People seem to use religion as a crutch for insecurities. Religion is one of the big problems facing mankind, not a solution to anything. Every war ever waged had it's roots in religion. The divide our country is currently experiencing has it's roots in religion. Religion = cancer except we aren't working to cure it.

for those where church is not really a thing in their lives, "fixing the insides" is still hugely important. If spirituality does not define you, fine, but at least get healthy and get your mind right - eat well, exercise, lift some weights, meditate, etc. Also, declutter your home - clean yourself up...literally.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a troll- I hope...

Sadly, it probably isn’t.

She DARED to leave. Clearly she wasn’t sufficiently grateful for the privilege of being married to OP. This gives him the right to try to destroy her —at any costs, including the kids. She must be taught a lesson.

Or she was the SAHM that banged the pool boy, grocery delivery guy, the plumber and the tennis pro while he was at the PTA meetings and taking the kids to practices/games, ran up 9 credit cards to their max and now is suing for alimony after he worked his ass off, bought the house she wanted, the car she wanted and got nothing in return. Who knows why he's pissed. He is and he is letting it out. Maybe he'll return here or maybe that was the vent he needed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a troll- I hope...

Sadly, it probably isn’t.

She DARED to leave. Clearly she wasn’t sufficiently grateful for the privilege of being married to OP. This gives him the right to try to destroy her —at any costs, including the kids. She must be taught a lesson.

Or she was the SAHM that banged the pool boy, grocery delivery guy, the plumber and the tennis pro while he was at the PTA meetings and taking the kids to practices/games, ran up 9 credit cards to their max and now is suing for alimony after he worked his ass off, bought the house she wanted, the car she wanted and got nothing in return. Who knows why he's pissed. He is and he is letting it out. Maybe he'll return here or maybe that was the vent he needed.

And now she is on her own. She is not his problem. Let her go...hell, buy her a plane ticket and wish her happy travels. Not my monkey, not my circus. Free at last!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So harsh, ladies, please refrain from chucking those boulders from the balconies of your glass houses...

Simply marry a hotter, younger, sweeter woman who is the ultimate stepmom to your kids as they will communicate their adoration of her and the inevitable comparisons will irritate your ex. Live happily ever after, and be sure to occasionally post photos of your new, much better life on social media. If she cares, it will bother her. If it doesn't, your family and friends will love the updates.

Hot, young, sweet women don't want to marry someone with four kids.

Depends how much money he has.

This and how much she wants to keep her hot bod, but still experience motherhood.

The hot-body preservation exercise is just as well tried with a childless man who doesn't have to share his time or his money with another woman's children. A divorced man with four children will never top a dating list for any hot, young, sweet woman, unless she is distinctly underprivileged in other ways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a woman who is better than your ex and let her play mom to your kids. That will make her miserable.

This. Plus someone hotter, younger, and skinnier. Your ex will go bonkers.

Why would a hot, young, skinny thing be interested in a man with four children?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a woman who is better than your ex and let her play mom to your kids. That will make her miserable.

This. Plus someone hotter, younger, and skinnier. Your ex will go bonkers.

Why would a hot, young, skinny thing be interested in a man with four children?

Why would they want one as obsessed with his ex as OP?

The willingness to do anything necessary to make his ex miserable would be a huge red flag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How can I make my STBX wife's life miserable. She's ruined my life and I want to do whatever I can to screw her over during the divorce process. I don't care what it costs. We're in MD with 4 kids/ Separated and sharing custody.

Set her up with the guy from the 'wife needs a friend thread', or his wife …