About once a week you see articles like this in the Post:
These are the parents of elementary school kids, by the way, talking about how they won't send their kids to an elementary school a few blocks further away, because of the decades-long violent feuding between their no-name flyspeck neighborhood and the adjacent no-name flyspeck neighborhood. Now it's possible this is all ginned up pseudo-drama by people with too much time on their hands. Or it's possible that beefs going back decades make it unsafe for you to send your 8 year old to a school a few blocks out of their neighborhood. Not sure I want my kid to be the test case though. You know who's got time for that nonsense? Nobody in their right mind. |
I am assuming sarcasm here? If you I agree. If not my statements still holds. There are a lot of black kids on that waiting list too! We want to like our DCPS and in some ways do. But IT (many other charters) offer a lot more creative instruction & flexibility, more after care options and a bit more diversity in student & family population. It seem unrealistic to assume families are only looking at test scores when they select their top schools for the lottery. Commute, school style or environment, feeder patterns, specials, clubs, sports, aftercare (and costs), family engagement, levels of diversity, of course academics as well. It just seems to narrow and stupid to think test scores are the only thing that matter or that is the main part of any kids school experience. |
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Your argument might have more weight if the poor people weren't scared of the poor people. https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/when-a-dc-school-closed-for-renovations-parents-faced-a-troubling-choice/2017/07/04/88c94334-5773-11e7-ba90-f5875b7d1876_story.html I'm deeply sympathetic to the claims that middle-class parents have some moral responsibility to contribute to fixing the problem of school segregation. My kid currently attends an EOTP elementary school. They are on track to go to a middle-school that is by every measure "struggling and high-risk"--and not in the distant future, but next year. So none of this is some rarified hypothetical scenario for our family. And I agree there's no place for overt racism--those people are assholes. But it would probably bolster the case for getting middle-class, largely white, parents to invest in "poor black schools" if we start by admitting that with poverty comes a greater level of dysfunction. Hell, that's the core narrative for organizations that work to help at-risk kids. If that weren't the case, middle-class parents would bear exactly *zero* moral responsibility for sending their kids to schools with high at-risk populations. Or for supporting funding for programs to alleviate things like homelessness, hunger, and poverty in general. If everything's hunky-dory then there's no problem. Obviously that's not the case. Let's stop pretending it is. |
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I went to a nice mostly AA parochial school in DC for a few years PP. It was a pretty bad experience . I was not invited on playmates or to parties. My mom was pretty clueless and probably could have done more, but this was in the days before parents were their kids social personal assistants. I also found the constant talk of jumping classmates (not followed through on or aimed at me,, but a constant subject of juicy speculation-who would get jumped next) frankly terrifying. [b]These were kids from nice middle/upper lower AA families. Jumping was just a huge part of their lexicon and unfamiliar/terrifying to me. At ten constant talk of beat downs was scary. Also a lot of siccin and jonin and the rest, however you spell it. And what they used to call close dancing at dances where you were all over the opposite sex without touching. Pretty ick for this fifth grader. I'm sure there are behavioral problems at schools with white kids, but there is a cross cultural layer that parents and their children will need to navigate on top of it. Maybe if you start early you can be that white kid who shows up at the historically black college in the kid and play movies, and I think many white kids and black kids in DC who go to the more diverse schools do end up comfortable and culturally competent. But it can be hard to be the first and only. Many AA families also balk at their children being an 'only' in predominantly white schools. [/b]
Um, so spending a few years at this school makes you an expert on AA culture, and qualified to comment on what is or isn't part of the culture? Whatever, dude. I hope you understand that your anecdotal experience doesn't mean it's fair or accurate to extrapolate to the culture of an entire group of people. I've been black my whole life, and grew up in 100% black neighborhoods and attended predominantly black schools through college, both with kids from the projects and those from affluent families. The notion that "jumping" is part of the culture is pretty ridiculous. Yes a few kids would talk about it occasionally, and it was more common in certain subgroups, but it was not something that I would describe as common or "a constant subject of juicy speculation." If I sent my kid to a high school in Potomac where lots of kids were using Oxycontin, I would be incorrect to conclude that opioid use is an innate part of white American culture. Same idea applies here. I could say more, but I'll stop there. I'm sure you consider yourself a liberal, too. |
Um, so spending a few years at this school makes you an expert on AA culture, and qualified to comment on what is or isn't part of the culture? Whatever, dude. I hope you understand that your anecdotal experience doesn't mean it's fair or accurate to extrapolate to the culture of an entire group of people. I've been black my whole life, and grew up in 100% black neighborhoods and attended predominantly black schools through college, both with kids from the projects and those from affluent families. The notion that "jumping" is part of the culture is pretty ridiculous. Yes a few kids would talk about it occasionally, and it was more common in certain subgroups, but it was not something that I would describe as common or "a constant subject of juicy speculation." If I sent my kid to a high school in Potomac where lots of kids were using Oxycontin, I would be incorrect to conclude that opioid use is an innate part of white American culture. Same idea applies here. I could say more, but I'll stop there. I'm sure you consider yourself a liberal, too. |
I'm not quite clear on what you mean here. But I do think that saying "poverty means the kids are dysfunctional" is not correct. Poverty (and racism) means that they have access to fewer resources, face discrimination on the job market and in school, and disproportionately face the punitive nature of government for the EXACT SAME "dysfunctional" behavior that a white kid might engage in. Literally, the GGW article is meant to dispell the myth that "poverty = dysfunction" because there are MULTIPLE "poor" schools that are considered unacceptable by DCUM (eg the Kipps) that actually have BETTER scores than HRCS (eg Inspired Teaching.) The dysfunction at your local middle school is due to the school; not due to the kids at the school. the Kipps and DC Preps of DC prove that. |
I'm curious what your take is on this article:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/when-a-dc-school-closed-for-renovations-parents-faced-a-troubling-choice/2017/07/04/88c94334-5773-11e7-ba90-f5875b7d1876_story.html I'm not an expert on AA culture, but it seems to me this has less to do with AA culture, and more to do with the culture of poverty over multiple generations. |
Nobody's saying you need to send your kid from AU Park to Benning Terrace for elementary school. But if you chose to live in a gentrifying neighborhood, turning up your nose at the local schools for being "not a good fit" or "not yet flipped" is problematic. |
| Hey we got a "problematic." LOL |
Sorry, I wasn't as clear as I could have been. I'm saying two things: first, of course it's not correct to say "poverty means the kids are dysfunctional". What poverty (and racism) means is that for a given student population--white or black--you're going to have a significantly higher number of kids who are struggling with issues caused by poverty. As you say "the EXACT SAME 'dysfunctional' behavior a white kid might engage in." But we don't live in a city where large numbers of white kids are living in poverty. That's sad, and unfair, and an indictment of the larger system, and a slew of other things. But it's the reality we live in in DC in 2017. So a school with a high number of very poor kids is a school in which a high number of kids are struggling under the weight of poverty. Not all of them are going to be dysfunctional, but certainly a higher number of them will be compared to a school in which no kids are struggling with poverty.
That may be what the GGW article was meant to dispel, but really all it shows is that high-poverty schools can have better tests. Is it possible that our local middle school would have better test scores if it were run like a USMC boot camp? Possibly. If that's what it takes to get the test scores up, and that's what kids who are struggling with poverty need in order to succeed, that's a model worth pursuing. But that's not a school model that fits the educational values of our family. Maybe that's totally racist. |
Ah, okay. So now we're just haggling over the price? |
It's segregationist. So take that as you will. |
Are you interested in engaging in this discussion in good faith, or not? |
I think most of us would agree that people who use inflammatory language are douchebags. "Not yet flipped" is a good example. Not sure if "not a good fit" is a problem, especially when you're talking about something like school culture. |