So what about all the teacher moms? Are they all really pulling 60 hour weeks while raising kids? |
I don't know too many teacher moms. I see a lot of young teachers with no kids or young kids or middle aged empty nesters or those who just didn't have kids and literally have no life (they are the ones who tend to pile on the work). I am joining the profession now that my kids are teens but I still feel like I'm burning the candles at both ends as I have mom's taxi duties many nights. No way in hell could I have been an effective teacher when my kids were younger. Hat's off to those supermom/teachers, wherever you are. |
So you have no input on how many hours you work as a teacher. Go cure cancer, please. |
That is not realistic in our area. We got a fixer upper (most people would be horrified at the condition) and it was $370K. Basically everything needed/needs to be redone replaced. For 95K we could have easily paid it off quickly too given we had a downpayment of 75K. |
I'm pretty sure most (if not all) teachers work more a bit than 38 weeks a year, though. Teachers typically have about a week's worth of required work days for training, planning, classroom set-up, etc before the students' first day of school & at least a couple of work days for classroom cleanup,more meetings, etc after the students' last day of school. And a lot of the random days off/long weekends scattered through-out the school year are "in service" days for teachers. So, while they do get a lot more time off than most people, it is not quite as much time off as one might think. |
^Plus, as another PP already pointed out, very few educated professionals with well over a decade of experience work 52 weeks a year . |
I'm a teacher mom and I'm writing a few days worth of lesson plans on a Saturday night which is typical for me. Sunday nights already feel melancholy so I try not to leave it for then. I rarely take work home during the week because it doesn't get done. After the kids are in bed, I am completely exhausted. I get to school around 7:20 and leave around 5:00/5:20. I'd say I work a 55 hr week while I actually get paid for 35 of them. |
Counting all those days it's 39 weeks for me (194 divided by 5). |
| I didn't teach when my kids were young. I went back to work when the youngest entered kindergarten. No way was I going to be gone 10-12 hours with little ones at home. I do have teacher friends who have to work with young ones. They spend less time in the school physically and take a lot home. But generally, those teachers avoid all committees and extra commitments and they are typically not the best teachers in the school those years. Decent? Yes. Great? No. |
| I am technically "off" 16 weeks per year. I am actually off about 10 weeks per year. Most friends who are not teachers get 3-4 weeks off per year. |
How long is your contract? I posted earlier that ours is 194 days, or 39 weeks of work. |
Where are you and what 's your HHI? If it's not realistic, you ultimately can either move somewhere where it *is* (and there are plenty of places in the US where it is) or accept that you'd rather live where you are. But you don't get to live in a HCOL while enjoying LCOL housing. |
We all get to choose where we live and which professions we choose, and usually the professions are chosen before the locations, and well before long term housing. If we'd chosen to live somewhere where 370k houses needed gutting after deciding to work as teachers, we'd be struggling too. So we didn't. Like the OP, I"m in Illinois. If I'd started teaching in Highland Park, my salary would currently be 72-74k this year instead of 50k. Big money! But I'd also be paying much, much more for housing. So we don't live in Highland Park. We live somewhere in Illinois where our salaries cover a greater proportion of housing. |
| Based on what I'm hearing here, do they even teach contract law as part of the admin endorsement? Seems like there's a whole lot of contract breaching going on and it seems to be getting worse. |
This is the core issue in this and most threads on DCUM. I chose teaching over medical school because I didn't want to accumulate (at the time) 160k in debt for a career with high rates of burn out. As a result, I don't make medical school salaries, but I also aren't dependent on that salary for debt repayment. I let go of one life so I could have another. Here OP wants the fulfillment of putting in lots of extra hours at work (as evidenced by her repeated ignoring of suggestions to drop all unnecessary work and her putting down teachers who put in more *and* fewer hours than she does), but OP also wants to have all of those extra hours back and more with her kids, and at the same time, OP wants to work PT but also wants FT money. We don't get to have everything in life. If OP's biggest priorities were time with kids, she wouldn't be doing all the extra stuff, and on top of that, she and DH would trim expenses so a.) the full pension wasn't necessary and b.) she could drop down to PT. If OP's biggest priorities were making more money, she could either ditch teaching completely for a higher paying career or work full time each summer (summer school, etc). But you don't get to do lots of useless extra work and then complain about how little family time you have or talk about wanting PT hours while wanting the security of FT pay. |