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Anonymous wrote:So please explain to me how IB families should handle this. There is a reality that more IB families are moving in. Because of this, class sizes are getting bigger. Yes, this means that there will be fewer spots for OOB kids (of any color).
What is your solution? Let in OOB kids in the lottery and have class size of 25+? Is there another way to handle this that I'm not seeing?
Perhaps try not responding with thinly veiled glee at the amazing change" at the school when knowing that oob with sibling families (some of whom are incredibly active in PTA) are on a waiting list. As in this thread:http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/546106.page
Um, where in my post did I talk about an "amazing change"? And I am not gleeful about it, in fact those families with OOB siblings on the wait list are my friends.
I really just wonder what you think the alternative to this situation is? I don't like it either, but it is reality and you act as if there is some other option.
I'm the PP from 13:21 earlier. The OP in the linked post about the PK4 waitlist--which may or may not be you; who knows?--said that there had been an "amazing change at that school." And when you are an OOB family with a younger sibling who's been waitlisted, and there are multiple calls on this site and elsewhere for IB families to demand that the principal not let in any OOB kids for any grade no matter what the class sizes look like, and there are other posters here saying things that sound like very thinly-veiled similar demands for no OOB kids, such as that all kids should walk to school in order to reduce the impact on the environment of not driving cross-town twice daily, then it does far more than sting, as another PP characterized it. It starts to sound ugly and exclusive and racist. It sounds like IB families are saying "Thanks for all your work making Hearst a quality school, folks, but don't let the door hit you on your way out. And we never really wanted you guys to be here in the first place."
And your friends who are waitlisted, of whom I may be one? We feel pretty shitty right now. We can't afford to move in-bounds to Hearst at the moment, nor would we likely have been able to in the past. We thought that getting one kid in was like winning the actual Powerball lottery in terms of not having to spend money we don't have to live in a better school boundary. We don't live in a beautiful huge EOTP house as a different PP said. We live in a crumbling 1908 rowhouse with no backyard that needs a ton of work and which seemed like the best compromise in terms of location and space when we were house-shopping a decade ago. We know it's not a right to have a sibling attend, but we also feel like the rug just got yanked out from under us. We have utterly no idea what we'll do if we don't get off the waitlist And to think that it's actual friends, or people I thought were friends, getting all up at arms about OOB kids and overcrowding that hasn't even happened yet? That also does more than sting.
To answer your question, there is no good option. But Hearst isn't currently overcrowded. The principal doesn't want it to be, IB families don't, current OOB families don't either. Preventing overcrowding doesn't require repeated demands for no OOB kids to be admitted or see-through statements about walkability and the environment or other reasons to restrict Hearst to only IB kids.
As a PP said, it would just be nice if IB families could be gracious and respectful of the fact that current OOB families are reading, and listening, and seeing who talks to whom on the playground, and which kids get invited to which birthday parties, and recognize that it all adds up and sometimes you're saying a lot about who you want at your school without even saying a word.