I havr a crush on my coworker

[Anonymous]

OP, I just read the entire thread. WTF are you doing? You shouldn't be making lists of what you like about him - should be about your husband - geez! You have gone too far in your mind, and in social situations with him, and him getting vulnerable and confiding in you, and in talking about politics, travel, etc. so much. You have already developed the beginnings of and emotional affair. Stop now.