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Anonymous wrote:Is anyone else shocked at how dogmatic and restrictive some schools have become about food lately? For example, cupcakes are banned on children's birthdays. Some entire schools ban anything with nuts from the school (no peanut butter and jelly sandwiches) on the grounds that someone might have a nut allergy. Or treating any candy as "contraband" to be confiscated. There's even a for-profit company, Revolution Foods, that has gotten into the act by selling high priced "organic" foods to schools at lunchtime. The infuriating thing about these "nazis" is that of course everyone wants healthy foods for their children. But rather than just leave it at that, these nazis want to eliminate all choice whatsoever. Rather than encouraging children to make responsible choices in foods, they want to simple eliminate all foods they don't like, including the comfort foods that have brought us joy for generations. And of course a parent who dares to even slightly question this health food/organic/no sweets dogma is ostracized.
Back when I was in school, we had cupcakes on kid's birthdays. We didn't get fat, because there was recess and we could run around all we wanted, none of this "structured activities" nonsense that takes the place of recess nowadays. It seems to me that SOME emphasis on health foods might be a good things, but now, especially at the schools with wealthy parents with way too much time on their hands, we get condescending, holier-than-thou attitudes, one-upmanship on rules and parents mindlessly following any drivel these food nazis put forward.
Is anyone else fed up by all this?
wow, I wish we could trade schools. I put a lot of effort into raising my kids on healthy food, and training their palates in such a way that they don't have huge sugar cravings. (ie, no sugary desserty stuff til 2 years of age, for starters) They were eating really well. After 2 years old, we had occasional sweet treats, like chocolate or an ice cream or popsicle or whatever. But not daily. Sugar is a habit, and not a very healthy one.
Then, they start preschool and the whole thing falls apart. They are given rivers of sweets. Lollipops and popsicles and cupcakes are handed out on a regular basis. Sweets are used as a reward by the teacher!!! This happened over and over again. In kindergarten and first grade too. How long ago did we learn that it's not good to associate food with reward? (esp. junk food) All this was happening despite the fact that I'd told the teachers that I don't want the kids to be given sugary treats.
If you ask me, in our society it's much harder to be a parent who wants their kids NOT to be given junk food than it is to be a parent who does want it. Kids are given lollipops at the bank, the post office, and even the doctor's office. I can't go anywhere without the kids being offered junk. I don't like the term "nazi" being bandied about the way the OP does, but really, it seems to me that "society" pushes junk food much more than pushing health food. Policies SHOULD be based on modern research and SHOULD push a public agenda that is good for the well being of all.