Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The schools with the best tuition remission policy w/ a teacher’s kids enrolled in the school. I love it when teachers tell me they took the job because of the tuition remission policy – meaning to me that they aren’t interested at all in the school. Reversely, I love it when teachers tell me they are quitting because their kid is graduating. I understand that tuition remission is huge with teachers. It would be for me too. However, I think the teachers should watch what they say to parents and not share so much.
And parents should watch what they say to and around their children. You would be appalled at some of the stuff that comes out of their mouths. Especially, political, ethnic or religious comments. We teachers have a field day with that.
Sure "Kids say the darndest things". Clearly you've never watched Art Linkletter/Bill Cosby, taken courses in childhood development/psychology, or attended Ed. School. Of course you are a private school teacher so naturally you consider any kid who is not a Stepford Child to be a freak.
On one hand I feel bad for you guys because you earn minimum wage, but on the other hand so many of you have taken academic shortcuts to become teachers, you don’t really deserve much more.
If you knew anything about childhood development you’d know that children are not adults just placed in smaller bodies. No far from it, they are children who are learning a wide variety of academic and social skills. Much of their learning curve is completed through the process of trial and error. It’s difficult know where or how children have acquired the information they've cobbled together and later presented as their understanding of the facts. As you say some of it may be learned at home, but they may also attain information from teachers, peers, and media.
Correct them because you are a good teacher. Gossip about something they have said making them the fodder of your ridicule in the teachers’ lounge makes you a bad teacher. Kindness, understanding and forgiveness will make you a good teacher and a gracious human being. Refusing to forgive a child, refusing to allow them to redeem themselves and ruing their reputations are the worst kinds of evils and you should remove yourself from the classroom immediately.
Kids have fewer filters and the strange or awkward things they say should be gently corrected and not be repeated for public amusement in the teacher’s lounge.
Most of us have gossiped at times and we should all resolve to never do it again; especially about children.
So yes you are right, kids do say the darndest thing, but if you are a professional educator you do not turn those missteps and misspoken words into a "field day" in the teachers' lounge.