| What is to prevent math teachers from filling in the extra minutes with IXL/edtech or “independent work” time (ie, noninstructional time to do classwork/homework)? |
And of course, students are playing video games and whatnot instead of these things |
Your post is a crazy reaction to what I posted |
I’ve been a teacher for 33 years. Yes, they absolutely did. Parents used to be much more involved in every aspect actually. |
We also never used to test this much. Test fatigue is real-especially at the end of the year. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had students just skip through to the end because they simply don’t care. A better indicator of proficiency would be to see how they are actually doing in class, during independent work time, in small groups… people are way too hung up on testing. |
Teachers tend to assume anything about parents that will absolve them of any responsibility. Today's parents spend more time with their kids than their own parents did with them. What has happened is income inequality leading to more needs in the public school population and fewer middle and upper class kids. https://news.uci.edu/2016/09/28/todays-parents-spend-more-time-with-their-kids-than-moms-and-dads-did-50-years-ago/ |
Textbooks would help. |
True and preferably based on curricula that are easy to understand (e.g. not Eureka) |
DP-not true. But is NOT my job to potty train your child, make sure your child gets to school (the extra amount of work for absences for teachers is insane) somehow your kid being chronically absent is my job to deal with, pass your kid with they dont do anything, be a counselor, raise your kid.... You're on the defense because this actually probably applies to you in one way or another. The good parents ARE out there and they are doing their jobs. They see what is happening with the other students. They don't brag about doing the very bare minimum in raising kids. My job is to teach. I do this bell to bell. Do you know how many other tasks I also have to do because parents refuse to do more? You absolutely do not. Keep blaming teachers though. Seems to be working well for you. Nothing is ever your fault. |
LMAO. "Today's parents spend more time with their kids..." you mean they give them headphones and an iPad and call it a day. But sure, they are "spending time with them." The denial is real. |
So your response is basically this study is not convenient for me so I will dismiss it without reading it. I honestly think your mental health could be vastly improved by spending less time thinking about how much you hate parents and imagining how terrible and neglectful we all are. And frankly, while you may not believe it, I genuinely believe the "Parents are all terrible" discourse you are participating in is meaningfully harmful to parents and by extension their kids. I urge you to think carefully about what you post online and the very real people who are reading it, nearly all of whom are doing the absolute best they can to be good parents and raise kind and hard working children. This is what the summary of the study says:
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Your little “study” claims “unpaid babysitting” is part of what parents have to do? lol. You lost all credibility with that one. Being a parent by definition is unpaid babysitting not some sort of special additional thing you get applause from. You’re basically asking us to clap for you because you do the bare minimum. Congratulations. Never said I hated parents but you definitely tried to shift the narrative to “teachers don’t do their job so they blane parents.” Teachers are trying to do their jobs while also doing yours. Again, only someone who knows they are guilty get this defensive. Log off DCUM and go spend some unpaid babysitting time w your kids. Good riddance. |
No, many of us try to be involved and most teachers refuse to return emails or work with parents. Its a rare few that actually do. If your kid is struggling too bad. They'd rather the kids fail than help. And, reaching out to admi is a joke as they never return emails or calls, refuse iep's/504's and when you actually get them after extensive outside testing and a huge fight its not followed. So, instead many of us quietly work with our kids at home and hire tutors. |
Wow, you need to deal with your anger issues yesterday. I sincerely hope you don't have kids or any role that involves being around children. Btw my guess is "unpaid babysitting" refers to caring for other people's kids and your own. |
IEP/504s used to not exist and are a huge part of the reason why *everyone* is working more now (parents and teachers) and why it feels so unsustainable. I strongly believe they're not actually necessary for many kids on them and that if we got back to kids being less micromanaged in school (fewer assignments, longer passing periods), fewer kids may even be diagnosed with ADHD. Somehow we seem to be stuck in a loop that tries to make things better for some percent of kids (eg "decrease test anxiety," so go from 2-3 big tests to tons of smaller assignments that can be a pain to keep track of; "don't let kids do drugs or have fights in bathrooms," which leads to passing periods so short kids stress out about not being able to go to the bathroom), which then lead to more overhead for everyone. |