I wouldn’t have an issue with that as long as I am not expected to show up to officiate the 4 hour B meet that my kid isn’t swimming in. At our pool most of the officials are parents of year round swimmers and their kids are generally not swimming B meets. |
All but a 2-3 A meet swimmers are swimming at B meets (every mcsl pool handles this differently), so, trained officials at B meets typically have a kid swimming. We just need more trained officials. Probably something every pool has an issue with. |
Exactly. Since you have so much free time and choose to spend it volunteering, why complain about others who choose differently? |
My mom was a single working mom as a kid. We were poor. Was I “punished” because I didn’t even have swim lessons let alone on a swim team? Was I “punished” because she couldn’t afford after school activities or summer camps so my brother and I were latch key kids? Probably moreso than the average privileged DMV swim team kid. I spent time in creeks and at the library, I didn’t have a bad childhood despite being “punished” for being poor. I’m sorry, but I don’t feel sorry for the privileged kids whose parents can’t make everything work. They aren’t entitled to every activity just because they want it. Parents do what they can to make things work and if they can’t volunteer for summer swim, then they’re not making it work. They can find another activity for their child. At our pool the heaviest volunteers are working parents. It’s an exhausting and intense 2 months, but we adjust for our kids. And if you can’t, that’s fine, but your kid isn’t entitled to be a part of it if you know the volunteer load beforehand and still sign them up knowing you won’t contribute. |
Because you don't seem to understand that the choice is not volunteering or not volunteering; it's signing your kid up or not. |
What is youth sports supposed to be about? It's only recently that it's exploded into this money making pay to play machine. In my parents' time, "youth sports" was kids getting their own bat and glove and heading down to the local park to play baseball. They made up their own rules and had to abide by them. There were no parents, umps or anything like that. Same for basketball. Their parents weren't wasting weekends timing youth swim meets. The concept of "youth sports" isn't what you seem to think it is. |
I officiate tons of club meets my kids don’t even swim in (mostly younger kid sessions where they generally don’t have volunteers). It’s a hobby. Prob will also help out for nvsl meets after they graduate and move on. It’s a way to give back and honestly, I think it’s pretty fun. |
I’m the other person that volunteers even though my kids have aged out. I’m glad there are others like me out there. When you’re in the thick of it and you’re being pulled in multiple directions it’s hard to imagine being able to volunteer because you want to. To all the swim parents dreading the upcoming season, it really does get better once it’s no longer a obligation. |
This. DH and I both work in office and are active volunteers. We move things around to make it work. |
DP It is, but why so snarky? |
Have you thread this thread? Anything related to summer swim is nothing but snark. |
I'm 50. I swam in summer swim and played rec basketball and rec soccer. How old are you? |
I said “my parents”. Ask your parents about their “youth sports”. It doesn’t look remotely like it does now. Back then kids who never played sports could join their high school team. |
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There are no consequences on our team if you don’t volunteer. Reps are of the mentality that is not the kids fault if they have crappy parents so kids still swim A meets.
Our team reps have not created an environment that makes it fun for parents. It’s very cliquish. We are is middle division team and parents are mean. They exclude people and it makes them not care. It’s not inclusive. We were a fun team 3 years ago but things change with new reps. What can you do. |
My parents were 10 in 1963 and were swimming in the NVSL. My dad also played Little League. |