Is it enough to be thin?

[Anonymous]

Your post is sad.

Don’t focus on what men want for you.

Figure out what will make you happy walking around the world, while you have health.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We know men don’t like fat women. But what if you’re thin and are not conventionally attractive?

Do you have a better shot at dating?

Who told you that men don’t like fat women? There are many fat women who are married and in happy relationships.
Instead of focusing on what other people want, focus on what makes you happy and you’ll attract the right partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We know men don’t like fat women. But what if you’re thin and are not conventionally attractive?

Do you have a better shot at dating?

Do you have boobs? Can a nose job help? Extensions? Facials?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thin and attractive gets one noticed. The rest is intrinsic factors, fun, caring, sense of humor, sexiness (beyond just physical weight)…..

Skinny is not sexy. You need a body to be sexy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if a new trend comes for obesity, you should still aim to stay healthy skinny for yourself instead of chubby attractive for men. Where the heck is feminism here?

Lol, new trend? Are you a boomer? Plastic surgeons and the like make a killing injecting and adding “fat” to faces and bodies. This has been happening for decades.

[Anonymous]

How do all these women in porn look so amazing and flawless? What do they do? Plastic surgeons, diet, exercise or just genetics?

It is just so discouraging.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think a woman who has a nice figure ALWAYS has an advantage over her fuller-figure counterparts even if the heavier women have traditionally prettier facial features.

Men love a great body.

Yes, but the debate is what’s a great body. White women think a great body is thinner and more shapeless than anyone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Even if a new trend comes for obesity, you should still aim to stay healthy skinny for yourself instead of chubby attractive for men. Where the heck is feminism here?

Lol, new trend? Are you a boomer? Plastic surgeons and the like make a killing injecting and adding “fat” to faces and bodies. This has been happening for decades.

And the women look like freaks. It’s for body dysmorphia it’s not a good look.

[Anonymous]

Not all white women are brainwashed into thinking the flatter the better. I have seen some beautiful curvaceous white women and you make my heart glad. 😍

[Anonymous]

The older everyone gets, I have found the men start looking elsewhere on the hot/crazy curve (ie, when they’re going they don’t care how crazy someone is if they are very hot). As men age, they’re more done with crazy and they appreciate normal/kind/not crazy more and care about a few extra pounds a lot less. And most men I know don’t like super skinny sticks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The older everyone gets, I have found the men start looking elsewhere on the hot/crazy curve (ie, when they’re young they don’t care how crazy someone is if they are very hot). As men age, they’re more done with crazy and they appreciate normal/kind/not crazy more and care about a few extra pounds a lot less. And most men I know don’t like super skinny sticks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, PP is right. Thin and unattractive works if you dress well. French women for example are very good at this.

Sarah Jessica Parker, Carolyn Bessette Kennedy, etc. are also good examples of this.

But if those are your examples, then your definition of "unattractive" is really expansive. SJP and CBK are/were unusual looking, so not beautiful, but also have/had certain qualities that make it much easier to make the look very attractive with good styling -- symmetrical faces, nice eyes, good natural teeth (or good orthodontia -- the point is they had nice teeth without veneers), strong cheekbones, and good jaw lines. Also truly fantastic hair for both of them -- thick and healthy even at longer lengths.

They both had long faces and prominent noses, and that's what kept them from being truly beautiful. But they were not "unattractive." They had a lot to work with and both did a good job of maximizing their looks, including by staying very thin.

They were not just thin, but fit: “hard bodies.”

Hello Patrick Bateman.

[Anonymous]

Everyone in DC is thin so it's not an advantage. Different story if you move to the Midwest or South.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think a woman who has a nice figure ALWAYS has an advantage over her fuller-figure counterparts even if the heavier women have traditionally prettier facial features.

Men love a great body.

Yes, but the debate is what’s a great body. White women think a great body is thinner and more shapeless than anyone else.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thin and attractive gets one noticed. The rest is intrinsic factors, fun, caring, sense of humor, sexiness (beyond just physical weight)…..

Skinny is not sexy. You need a body to be sexy.

Too much body is also not sexy.