Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do country club wives just go along with their husbands behaving like this? Is it just part of the deal? The wives take the kids to the beach for the summer and the husbands stay home “to work” - i.e. reliving their college frat days at the country club, with drugs and women galore?
We're wealthy Educated women. What a dB sexist thing to think that men hold all the power in our relationships. Some if us earn large salaries and have significant independent wealth. Do you think we grow up in these wealthy educated families amd were born yesterday? I'm generational wealth and DH is new money - I hold much more relationship power than he does. Not a chance he'd be acting this dumb without me knowing and doing something about it. Fortunately, he'd never do anything that dumb - he's very smart.
I think this behavior happens more when men marry down creating a power imbalance, so they are free to be a jackals The thing is those women never really fit in to begin with.