And the families that have inherited wealth but low salaries…sigh. |
The hardest part is getting accepted to Princeton not paying for it! |
Colleges have favored spenders over savers for 30+ years! It has never been "fair."
I remember in 1992 I grew up in a tiny home with an incredibly simple lifestyle and yet we paid full price for college because my parents diligently saved for years. Meanwhile my roommate was on 50% aid and had all the latest gadgets, a beautiful home and a mom who didn't work. It really offended my 18 year old self. |
I'm curious, for those of you who are angry at the college FA system, what would you do if you were in charge? Would you make it a flat rate for everyone? In which case a lot of very bright kids would get locked out of private colleges? The current way is certainly not perfect, what alternative would be perfect? |
Yep. My parents only let me go in-state. I had the stats for much higher ranked schools. |
+100 Busted my @ss and I see neighbors that never saved, taking extravagant vacations, only 1 parent in the house worked and they are getting need-based aid. |
Does the law say fewer than 3000 tuition paying students or fewer than 3000 tuition paying undergraduates? If it is the former, Dartmouth could never do this - they have a med school, law school, etc, none of which Princeton has. So Dartmount probably has >>10k students. Princeton has almost exclusively PhDs which don't pay tuition. |
Do you think a six figure household income below $200k is middle class? If so, there are plenty of middle class kids. |
If a big issue for you is not liking how Princeton University runs its financial aid calculator then you are in a really good shape. |
There are certain investment vehicles that aren't often looked at as a potential payment source, like your retirement fund. You could also buy your family a house with the understanding that it's temporary. |
This still happens. "Upper middle class" families who don't qualify for aid cannot afford these prices. Not while raising other kids and saving for retirement. And part of the reason we can't afford it is because tuition at private schools is artificially inflated to cover all of this ridiculous financial aid! Private schools were 20-25k/year when we went to college. That would be $50k in todays money, not the $80k that it is. |
Yep and driving luxury cars too… |
I’m the PP you’re dissing, and the problem is that we really CAN’T afford an ivy for our kids even though our talented kids would have a very good chance of being admitted. We’re already shopping at Walmart and it’s not enough. That was my point. And yes, it sucks to see people driving SUVs and wearing lulu and taking cruises and we just don’t do that stuff but don’t get aid because we’re in the donut. Of course we could spend down our assets and have nothing to retire with but we’re too responsible for that so we won’t. Meanwhile, people who don’t work hard, don’t make any work or financial sacrifices and who spend everything they get their hands on get their kids a full ride to ivy league colleges. If you can’t see the inherent unfairness in that then I don’t know what to tell you. |
I don't understand. You just said it yourself. You have money saved for retirement and presumably the other family doesn't. I know which family I'd rather be but you do you. But if you're looking at this family that is doing the thing that you seemingly want to do, then do it. get the full ride and drive the luxury car I guess if you're able to figure out how that works. What is stopping you? I seriously think that if this is your big problem in life, then you're fine. |
Your kids are not even in college not getting any kind of aid package and you're all upset about it. You have a perfect opportunity to look at how the aid package is distributed and adjust your finances to maximize your financial award . I am not an expert in the aid awards, but if you are saying that buying a luxury car and a fancy vacation helps you get more aid rather than less, then I guess you have the advantage of doing that. I agree that that does not make sense. But I don't know if you're in a position to fundamentally change how Princeton calculates their financial aid so you probably should go with the system they are using. And things are only going to get worse across the board for financial aid at places like Princeton. They are about to get whacked with hundreds of millions of dollars in endowment taxes that obviously will no longer be used for aid awards. It sounds like Princeton might have a chance to get out of some of it, but some of the others will not. |