LOL what a contradiction "stripping funding from a lot of these institutions and making life in academia miserable" vs "Your tax dollars hardly go to universities" Take your pick idiot. |
No, you just lack reading comprehension. Very few of your dollars go to education, at all. How much money do you think we have? Why do you think we have the money for a golden space defense dome, a border wall, and immigration services? We're rich. |
We spend tax money giving your corporation PPE loans and various subsidies. We should be able to monitor your computer and have access to all your data, thanks. |
DP. I am fine with tax dollars going towards scientific research at universities. You'd have to be an idiot not to prioritize a nation's research arm. Some of you seem to think the only point of colleges is producing undergrad degrees. Undergrad education is very important, but it's a small fraction of the things universities do to benefit society. Of course, the self-absorbed parents who believe their snowflakes deserve entry into selective colleges wouldn't understand this. Sadly, these parents are the ones creating the very ultra-competitive situation that they then despise and blame others for. |
| We tell applicants every year why they get rejected. There’s a lot of other applicants, the applicant pool was strong, and your application wasn’t at the top. Learning to take no for an answer is an important skill. |
There are 3000+ schools. Colleges get to have freedom to choose. If you they want to do whatever they want with their own funding, then that's fine. Education system is the backbone of the society, it should start with fairness and transparency. There has been history of discriminaiton Jews, Asisna, etc. It's not too much to ask at all unless you have some kind of Slavery mentality. |
This. Sorry mom, your kid isn’t that special. Special is what gets you in. |
| Unfortunately, in my area this year the top schools pulled from private school. My kid and her friends from public all go to state flagship after deferred. Private school still has movement from waiting list with “change of plans” announcements. These kids are not smarter but better pedigree. It is what it is. |
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The info is out there is you want to look for it. Someone compiled the scoring rubrics for certain colleges and put them here last year.
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1224166.page |
| My kid IS special and unique. To me. In our house. Not in the context of the big world out there. Not even in the context of our larger extended family. There are lots and lots of smart, accomplished kids out there. |
If you’d learned, you would know the privates ALWAYS get the WL calls. |
That doesn’t help current juniors choose which schools to put on their college list. The “advice” seems to be, “apply to as many schools as humanly possible, because you have no right to get into any, no matter how well you did in high school! And there’s no way to predict in advance which might accept you!” |
This is the most sensible and insightful post. It describes the agitator of this thread perfectly. We have such a great range of schools here in the US, some with by the numbers admissions, some with more holistic admissions, and a vast range of selectivity. All of this avoids the test-grind pedagogy that some other countries suffer from, and as a consequence I would argue that while no admissions system is perfect, our college and graduate education system works better at promoting innovation, which is why international students want to study here. Or at least they used to. |
The advice is to apply to 2 or so safety schools, mostly apply to schools your stats align with, and have a couple reach schools. Any "pressure" to get into a top college is self inflicted. |
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