Will it be normal for 36 year old to Still live at home

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Will it be normal for 36-year-old to live at home and has no plans to move out, and have no plans to ever find a boyfriend or girlfriends or even a friend to move in with?

Works and makes okay money about 60,000 a year, but she just doesn't want to spend any money and want to save it all...

It wouldn't be normal for someone 26, let alone 36. One's window to find long term friends, romance, spouse and children often closes after 40.

This is true

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This isn't normal by US standards. She clearly thinks she will stay there forever. The question is are you okay with this? Or would you like her to move out? Most US parents expect their kids to move out and create a life of their own.

Agree.

[Anonymous]

36 yr old living at home does not allow for growth for the 36 yr old. It also does not give privacy to the parents. I’m remarried for tens years now and my wife’s 37 year daughter just moved in with us. I’m 68 worked my whole life to afford to retire. Now what did I work for ? No privacy in my house and when I say something my wife has all these excuses.
She called her father who said no to living with him. 37 year old living with parents ( not healthy)

[Anonymous]

There will be a lot of adult children needing to move back when AI takes their jobs, some with children in tow. People will have to decide whether their independence and privacy is worth more than supporting their family members.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:36 yr old living at home does not allow for growth for the 36 yr old. It also does not give privacy to the parents. I’m remarried for tens years now and my wife’s 37 year daughter just moved in with us. I’m 68 worked my whole life to afford to retire. Now what did I work for ? No privacy in my house and when I say something my wife has all these excuses.
She called her father who said no to living with him. 37 year old living with parents ( not healthy)

Does she work or she always doing a TikTk dance?

[Anonymous]

No, not normal.

[Anonymous]

Not normal Op.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

May as well just keep her there for in home elderly care as you age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There will be a lot of adult children needing to move back when AI takes their jobs, some with children in tow. People will have to decide whether their independence and privacy is worth more than supporting their family members.

How are parents going to support with their own social security, 401k and healthcare in jeopardy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:May as well just keep her there for in home elderly care as you age.

That's what happens in India, multigenerational families live and share resources due to financial and cultural restrains. Works out well for a quarter, uncomfortable for half and a living hell for the rest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There will be a lot of adult children needing to move back when AI takes their jobs, some with children in tow. People will have to decide whether their independence and privacy is worth more than supporting their family members.

How are parents going to support with their own social security, 401k and healthcare in jeopardy?

Everyone will have to work together to make it work. Multigenerational living will be common.

[Anonymous]

I'm 60 and grew up on a farm in rural Virginia. I, and both of my parents, grew up in multigenerational houses.

[Anonymous]

60K is ok income if one is planning to get married to a man who makes a bit more and you combine incomes. Which is what she should be doing.

[Anonymous]

My cousin who is 67 still lives at home and both her parents already died of old age. That is strange. She still lives in the house she lived in as a newborn.

Even stranger. They built a massive shopping mall next door to her house in the late 1960s. I recalled hearing Dad was furious they have to look at a big shopping mall forever. After 50 years or so the mall shut down, was torn down and now they are building condos there.

When she came home from Hospital it was a Farm next to her house and it was 1958.

Is that what you want for your kid?