I know right? It depends on the ivy. I don't think there are a lot of kids at WASP that wouldn't prefer to go to Yale or Princeton. But I can see some of them picking WASP over Cornell. Cornell is a huge school. |
Some kids visit one of these schools and just fall in love - as with my kid, who graduated with a 4.0, high rigor, 1580 SAT, from a very prestigious private school. She had three Ivy legacies between her two parents and assumed she would pick one of those to apply early to, until she visited Williams and suddenly didn't want to spend her four years of undergrad anywhere else. While it's true that many kids chase the "brand name" of Ivy+, and I totally get why they do, others decidedly do not and I think it's kind of silly to assume everyone has the exact same priorities. |
I have found all the nastiness to be a cautionary tale about setting too high a value on prestige. When your decisions are motivated strongly by how others perceive you, it’s easy to become stuck in an endless loop of creating distinctions — often between things that are more similar than they are different. Every school mentioned in this thread is fantastic. A kid would be mind-blowingly fortunate to attend any of them. They can also go literally anywhere from all of them. How great is that? |
Nope. |
| Good for the brightest students who want the best college education and also need aid. Mine chose one of them over a T10 university and couldn’t be happier. 68% of that class received some aid. WASP is much more generous than you think. |
Yep. For us, Williams was less than half the cost of Yale. The other WASP schools were also significantly cheaper. Also, I know that this forum doesn't always focus on the actual education one receives in college, but the breadth and depth of what one learns at a top LAC is as good as it gets in undergrad. |
| Ivy rejects. |
This is my kid. He isn’t applying to Cornell or Columbia, but is applying to all the other Ivies, Williams and Amherst. Also applying to some slightly less competitive schools in the 5,000 to 10,000 student range. Thinks Williams might be too small for him, but was very impressed with the option to take tutorials. |
+1 Or is just stirring the pot to get off. Boring |
Tutorials are not that much of a benefit, especially if in stem, where specialized coursework in fields outside your own are just…fluff courses. |
| I literally know a kid at Williams right now who chose it over HYP. Maybe you can’t imagine doing that? Which is fine, good on ya, whatever. But the whole “that’s just a fact” thing isn’t…factual. |
Not everyone is obsessed with Harvard. |
No cure for the stupid which ails you. |
| Back in the 90s I chose Swarthmore over Princeton and Brown. I liked the size and the undergrad focus and the campus and the politics and the Quaker vibe. And I probably sort of enjoyed saying no to Ivies in a perverse way. I am not sure what I would choose if I had to do it over again. In any case I went to an Ivy for grad school so got that credential eventually fwiw. |
+1 I know a kid who chose Williams over Stanford and another who chose Middlebury over MIT. |