Ashley Madison Netflix documentary - anyone watch it yet?

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Anonymous wrote:My husband was on the list. We are divorced.

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I’m sorry. That must have been awful.

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Smart lady - you know AM was likely the least of his antics.

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Anonymous wrote:There used to be a way to search by zip code but I’m not sure it still exists.

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It does! Keep looking!

share, please.

I think it was posted on fairfaxunderground, but most of the list was wiped.

People absolutely still have copies of that list, both hardcopies and e copies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Y’all are combing through this list to check for neighbors?

Absafreakinglutely. You know why? Because exactly who we thought was on that list, is on that list.

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all are combing through this list to check for neighbors?

Absafreakinglutely. You know why? Because exactly who we thought was on that list, is on that list.

The list is like 9 years old right? Leak happened in 2015.

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Anonymous wrote:There used to be a way to search by zip code but I’m not sure it still exists.

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It does! Keep looking!

share, please.

I think it was posted on fairfaxunderground, but most of the list was wiped.

People absolutely still have copies of that list, both hardcopies and e copies.

Really wish I had a copy. Some suspects....

[Anonymous]

About 10 years ago, I was sitting at a bar with my husband and the bartender was like, “You guys are so cute! You look like that couple who sings Frozen songs in their car.”

We had no idea who she was talking about so we googled it. Bwahahahaha. I haven’t thought about them since, but then I watched AM the documentary. I can think of at least one way that we’re dissimilar to those people.

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I remember watching the video of him surprising her with the positive pregnancy test. I just had to laugh. These people paying who knows how much to cheat 90% of time were talking to bots.

[Anonymous]

The doc was not good because it wasn't focused enough. Too much time spent on the Christian vloggers. The fakeries of influencer couples would have been more interesting, with more couples involved. The Ashley Madison scandal didn't have enough to it on its own.

[Anonymous]

Such a complete bore. The whole thing was basically about the fat, gay guy who used to work there and the pathetic YouTube couple with the wife who apparently doesn't flush the toilet after she pees. They didn't even go into all of those government employees which I would have preferred. Such a waste of time.

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Anonymous wrote:Such a complete bore. The whole thing was basically about the fat, gay guy who used to work there and the pathetic YouTube couple with the wife who apparently doesn't flush the toilet after she pees. They didn't even go into all of those government employees which I would have preferred. Such a waste of time.

I don't think I know any government employees, but there are certainly more than enough Holier Than Thou types on the list!

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I have the feeling that my old HS boyfriend was the type that would end up on this list - I want to see.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There were bots, yes. Even the employees admitted to engaging with male customers with fake profiles.

A couple things:

1) people calling out the name-searching of customers as a "witch hunt because we're all sinners" - F that. We all have choices. Many of us don't make choices that hurt and betray people we (allegedly) love.

2) the Christian social media guy calling the site's existence as "evil." Dude, no one made you sign up and cheat on your wife. Own up to your own choices. Ashley Madison still exists because of willing customers, not because the creators are evil. I don't blame the site for existing - no one's forced to sign up. There is no such thing as "satan" - take accountability for your own hurtful choices.

3) I have no ill judgement for couples that have open marriages/relationships, or for people that get divorced. I will always have ill thoughts over people who cheat. It isn't the physical act - it's the deception, betrayal, and outright disregard for the person they say they care about.

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The documentary was too soft on the men who signed up.

They chose to focus on a guy who committed suici!!de and a younger guy who “confessed” and was forgiven by his wife. And really played up the “evil” CEO. Yes, the CEO was a horrible person but these married men on the site going behind their wives backs are also horrible. The betrayal, not to mention unknowingly exposing them to STIs. Very likely many of the men who signed up for the site also did other things with hookers, etc. too.

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That Christian guy was the absolute worst. Narcissist all the way. Look at me, look at me, I’m so Christian! At least a non Bible thumper is a genuine person. Hiding behind God to do your evil is the penultimate sin. And what a dumb wife.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There were bots, yes. Even the employees admitted to engaging with male customers with fake profiles.

A couple things:

1) people calling out the name-searching of customers as a "witch hunt because we're all sinners" - F that. We all have choices. Many of us don't make choices that hurt and betray people we (allegedly) love.

2) the Christian social media guy calling the site's existence as "evil." Dude, no one made you sign up and cheat on your wife. Own up to your own choices. Ashley Madison still exists because of willing customers, not because the creators are evil. I don't blame the site for existing - no one's forced to sign up. There is no such thing as "satan" - take accountability for your own hurtful choices.

3) I have no ill judgement for couples that have open marriages/relationships, or for people that get divorced. I will always have ill thoughts over people who cheat. It isn't the physical act - it's the deception, betrayal, and outright disregard for the person they say they care about.

+1000

The documentary was too soft on the men who signed up.

They chose to focus on a guy who committed suici!!de and a younger guy who “confessed” and was forgiven by his wife. And really played up the “evil” CEO. Yes, the CEO was a horrible person but these married men on the site going behind their wives backs are also horrible. The betrayal, not to mention unknowingly exposing them to STIs. Very likely many of the men who signed up for the site also did other things with hookers, etc. too.

I’m surprised they didn’t throw Josh Duggar in there. He had moved to DC and was starting a political career as a lobbyist for the FRC. Ashley Madison was his second scandal, which leaked not long after reports he’d molested his sisters came to light. Now he’s serving time for having CSA material.

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Anonymous wrote:I was really hoping the YouTube wife would leave her husband. I haven’t finished the third part, but saw that they were still together. He was such a narcissistic jerk.

That guy had some serious issues. I mean, surprising your wife with news of her own pregnancy—while filming the entire thing of course—and then immediately blasting it out on social media for validation is very very strange.

Indeed.

I also got the feeling that it was fake. I mean, why didn’t she flush the toilet? I know there are some people who don’t, for environmental reasons. But I don’t think that’s what was going on there. I think that was a planned video.

She ended up miscarrying a few days after the video was posted, which the documentary seemed to gloss over, because it was another moment when their channel was called out for being fake. The couple seem desperate for content, which is the only reason I can imagine agreeing to this documentary and dragging their family through reliving such a humiliating moment.

The dude clearly has more issues than Ashley Madison.

They’ve been showing up in my reels! They’re putting out all sorts of content about being in the documentary. They’re total whack jobs.