Help me make it through the next month and a half

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP. It’s crazy how much the kindness of internet strangers helps me feel better, so thank you! Spouse doesn’t know, but I booked a flight with a prepaid Visa card to the opposite coast for Friday night - don’t know if I’ll actually use it, but it feels good to have it.

A PP here who is Team OP. The idea of a trip is great and gives you something to look forward to (even if you don't do it in the end--check the airline's policy re: canceling or postponing). I know you have a DC--would DC go with you or would spouse balk at both of you suddenly leaving? Not dissing the idea of a trip, but also not sure how DC fits into it.

DC is actually in college on the coast I’d be visiting! Thinking of having a heart-to-heart with DC that weekend, but not sure if it’d be too soon - spouse may need time with DC instead depending on verdict. All I know is that I need to get away after holding down the fort for the past 2 years.

Whoa, sorry, I forgot that DC is in college, OP! Definitely a good time for an escape. I'm glad on your behalf that you have an older DC who is out of the house.

[Anonymous]

Any chance you could meditate with your eyes open while in court? Go to your happy place inside?

Do what you need to so. You've done it this long and you CAN endure! I hope you get to take that trip on Friday! Hugs! Stay strong and keep us posted!

[Anonymous]

How's it going, OP? Taking off tonight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How's it going, OP? Taking off tonight?

+1 How you doing, OP? Is it over? Hugs?

[Anonymous]

In the homestretch, OP!!!! Thinking of you.

[Anonymous]

How did everything turn out? Did you take the vacation? I hope so.

[Anonymous]

Melania... is that you??

[Anonymous]

Come on, OP! Give us an update! We're invested! Did you visit your DC in California? Did you file for divorce? How you doing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Spouse is defendant in upcoming trial. I’m leaving the marriage regardless of the verdict, but need to present a supportive and united front through the trial for DC’s sake. Has anyone been through something like this? It’s been almost 2 years since this ordeal started and I’m really at the end of my rope. Would appreciate advice from anyone who’s been through something like this before.

Did you make it Op? It’s month 2.5 now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:yeah I don't think this is the lesson you want to teach DC.

I agree. If you are divorcing, your child will know you faked it all. Just don’t go.

[Anonymous]

Just saw your post on DCUM.

Hope that your issue is settled now + that you are now in the process of divorcing this rat!

[Anonymous]

I just came across this post.
Any updates?