Well, perhaps check the title of the thread. Such a weird and completely irrelevant analogy BTW regarding testing your poop. |
| Professors are there to teach. They're not social workers. |
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I have taught at several universities. Attendance isn't required for most classes. I certainly had students who never came to class, unless an exam was taking place.
I did teach at one university where attendance was recorded electronically, and counted toward the grade. I did not have access to those records until the final, end of term calculation. Many large lecture classes have hundreds of students, and you never learn students' names. The teaching assistants might learn them, but not showing up to your small group session is even more common than not showing up to lecture. In many cases, the only contact info you have for a student is their campus email. Contacting them via any other means is considered unprofessional. When I had advisees who never came to see me, there were people I could contact to check on them. There was never an issue. Certainly, some students in distress did reach out to the university for help. |
DP here (also an R1 uni). This is harsh, but I have to agree with this. Expecting the prof to check in is too much. That is the parent's job, and akin to we are losing good teachers, at the K-12 level. Parents expect too much. |
+1 Moreover, the litigious nature of parents and students prohibits inquiry on personal matters. Keep it to the academics only. You can’t even give a student a half hug. Etc. |
| I recently left academia but when I was a professor, I checked in on students if they missed an exam. Certainly not if they missed class. There were a couple times I didn't hear back after the missed exam check-ins, at which point I contacted their advisors and Dean's Office so that they could follow up from there. I remember one of the advisors told me I was routinely the only professor who bothered in these situations. |
| This question is bonkers to me. I never had a professor check up on me. Most of them never knew I existed at my very large public university. I would not expect them to be babysitters for my kids now. |
Did you not realize that your son is now adult when he is in college? Does your boss call your mom when you skip work? |
NP. If a student stops going to class due to some sort of crisis/emergency I would imagine they have stopped showing up in other areas of life as well. A parent would know if they did their job. |
| What?! No. Students are 18 or older, they’re adults. They’re expected to show up and learn. This is why all these helicopter parents who didn’t cultivate their children’s intrinsic motivation have set their kids up for failure. |
| They never did when I was in college. This is college not elementary school. |
My students skip class all the time. If their parents skipped work like the kids skip class, they'd all be homeless. You're comparing apples to oranges. -- high school teacher |
| This would be considered an over-reach. These are adults. They can come to class or skip class at will. Professors are not trained in mental health or psychiatry. |
That's really sad, but did anyone notify the school's counseling center about the situation? People can't "GAF" if they don't know what's going on. |
It is very common for college kids to not go to class. It is very common for half of kids to not be in class after the first week or 2 of the semester. Professors never try to check on the location of missing kids. Even in very small classes professors would be unlikely to look into an absence. They would just assume the kid was skipping class. |