are professors not required to check in on students?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:So FERPA and HiiPA prevent professors from getting involved in students not showing up. They are legally adults, so they cannot check on either their grades in other classes, attendance, or mental health--it's illegal!

-SLAC professor


Yet we can call someone’s family if they no show to work for a few days.

Perhaps you midunderstand FERPA and HiiPA.


I really doubt anyone from my job would call my family if I didn’t show up. I’m a public school teacher and we’ve had teachers stop coming. Eventually they have been in contact with someone to turn in their laptop. No one calls their family to report them missing.


I’ve had two instances where I had to call an employee’s emergency contact. These both happened years ago, before the emergency prevalence of cell phones and remote work.

1. Long-time employee on my team was a no-show. We called him throughout the morning and by lunch were getting worried. He was an older man who lived alone. A friend of his was his emergency contact and she was able to call the management of the building he lived in. He was asleep. Had been on some medication that knocked him out and he just never woke up that day until they were knocking on his door. He was mortified and so apologetic, but we were just relieved he was ok.

2. A new employee called out sick two days in a row after only her first week. On the third day, never called. We tried to contact her repeatedly and then called her father who was her emergency contact. He said she was fine but gave us no other information. Another staff member took it upon herself to call this person’s last job and she answered the phone. Apparently she went back to that job and wasn’t going to bother to tell us. Never found out why. Our guess was she felt she was over her head in the new role or they threw more money at her to return.

I can’t imagine a work environment where my colleagues wouldn’t start to get concerned and have someone reach out if I didn’t show up after a day or two.


Your work colleagues = other classmates/friends at college, not the professor.

The professor is more like the divisional VP calling the emergency contact because one of the junior reports doesn’t come in to work.

I might college friends will take notice if their friend skipped hanging out and/or doesn’t seem to be leaving their dorm room vs a professor and a kid missing class.


Totally agree. I’m just responding to the teacher who said no one would ever check on her.

College and work are not remotely the same thing. Back when I was in school, most of my classes had like 200 people in them. And even the smaller ones, no professor was checking up on us.
Anonymous
OP, if you have to ask this question, you have some serious problems as a parent. Professors are not there to baby your kid. It was your job to raise your kid well. Yeah, hard to believe, right?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:are professors not required to check in on students if they skip class?

My DS stopped attending a class and not one email or phone call from the professor.


OP did you ask your DC? Your DC needs ramifications - from you.
Anonymous
Mental health or substance issues can develop at this age. I’d hope to have solid communication with my DC.

If I were concerned, I’d use the “track my friend” app that allows me to check-in on my kid’a location and see whether they attended class.

If I were really concerned, I’d send my kid to a very small school with more oversight and “we’ll look after your child” mentality.

Or, perhaps suggest a gap year for my kid to mature to the point where they were able to be responsible for their obligations.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:are professors not required to check in on students if they skip class?

My DS stopped attending a class and not one email or phone call from the professor.


They don't care. College is about taking CONTROL of your kids and brainwashing them. I mean that very sincerely. Profs and admins are loons.
Anonymous
Regarding FERPA, student can waive that right. Trying to remember back but I think we were advised to do that (general college advice) and had our DC sign it in case we ever had a concern and wanted to talk to the college. Never planned to use it and never needed it thankfully. It would be for event of emergency when we wouldn’t want to be stonewalled.
Anonymous
One of my professors married one of his former students; she was 30 years younger than he was. Professors do not want parents involved because nearly all of them are power drunk creeps.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Mental health or substance issues can develop at this age. I’d hope to have solid communication with my DC.

If I were concerned, I’d use the “track my friend” app that allows me to check-in on my kid’a location and see whether they attended class.

If I were really concerned, I’d send my kid to a very small school with more oversight and “we’ll look after your child” mentality.

Or, perhaps suggest a gap year for my kid to mature to the point where they were able to be responsible for their obligations.


WTH might this be???

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Regarding FERPA, student can waive that right. Trying to remember back but I think we were advised to do that (general college advice) and had our DC sign it in case we ever had a concern and wanted to talk to the college. Never planned to use it and never needed it thankfully. It would be for event of emergency when we wouldn’t want to be stonewalled.


Good luck with that.

Anonymous
It sounds like OP lost control of their kid and now wants to blame someone else. Which I’m sure has been happening all along as well.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DD went to a SLAC and I think her professors would have reached out if she stopped going to class. I went to a large state university and can guarantee none of my professors would have given me a second thought.


What is a slac?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women’s colleges are more known for providing “in loco parentis”


It’s funny, but some professors seem to take a more interactive approach to monitoring female students’ wellbeing than they do with male students. 🤷🏾‍♂️
Anonymous
Troll just keeps on trollin'.
Anonymous
I’m a law professor and we check in on students who miss too many classes. But that’s the benefit of being a small school. Parents should think about this in helping kids decide where to go to college. Class size and community matter.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:are professors not required to check in on students if they skip class?

My DS stopped attending a class and not one email or phone call from the professor.


No. They are not parents. Especially not if it’s a huge lecture. If it’s a smaller seminar (>20 people) they might notice. Still might not check.

A TA might check.
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