Which college? |
| We did it at one of the schools mentioned by OP. We’ll see how it turns out. |
This is the way to do it. One of my husband's closest friends is a board member at a school that's nationally ranked at about #50 (not prestigious enough for many of you, I know, but if DS wanted to go there we'd be pleased). We would never outright ask him. We WOULD tell him if our kid wants to go there. Then it would be up to him whether or not to offer support. Another friend (not super close but solid) is a board member at a school nationally ranked at about #20. That would be tougher...and if DS really had it as his first choice DH may consider reaching out to see if he'd met us for lunch and a casual tour or something (but he would never ask for a letter). |
This is how it should work. Organic, genuine, and merit-based. |