| Stop eating take out and going out eat at home problem solved. |
Think it is true that some Aldis are better than others. The ones in Merrifield and Falls Church are "nicer". The one in Rockville is OK. The ones in Chantilly and Frederick are kinda gross. And there's a nice one in Rutland VT. =) |
I have never seen a US grocery store as disgusting as the Aldi in Baileys Crossroads. Dried-out, wilted, and rotting produce. Empty shelves with boxes strewn all over. Dirty. I was baffled. I have been to the Del Ray Aldi, and while not great, was no where near as bad. |
DP- this is purely anecdotal but for a while our Aldi seemed to have frequent refrigeration issues. A lot of people complained and it must have been fixed because things were cold again and it made a huge difference. Was obviously not a big deal for things like bananas and avocados but I stopped buying stuff like lettuce and broccoli for a while because it was lukewarm and already looked poor. |
OMG yes to the Bailey's Crossroads one. Is Aldi's franchised? Otheriwse I wonder why it's so inconsistent. |
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Three days of takeout a week is too much takeout OP. I would find easy homemade dinners that could substitute for the takeout, and get take out once a week at the most.
We have homemade tacos one night, homemade stir fry one night, and mostly homemade pizza (store bought crust). It's a lot cheaper than ordering out; you can use grassfed meat and it still costs less. All those organic fruits and vegetables are fine, but takeout is usually not organic and is not adding much to your health but high sodium. |
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You are crazy indulgent.
Our meals most days are Breakfast: yogurt and toast, or Grapenuts, coffee Lunch: homemade sandwiches, soup, salad, fruit Dinners: Tacos or enchiladas; stir fries, homemade lo mien, London broil; hamburger, pasta with chicken and veggies, pasta with spaghetti and meat balls, lasagna soup, chicken casseroles, pot roast with veggies. All meals have salads or other veggies. DH and I go out Friday nights, kids make frozen pizza at home. |
Bailey’s one is gross. Del Ray one is great IMO. Never had a problem. I’ve been shopping there since the Giant left, way pre covid. |
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Agree the aldi locations vary widely!
Separately, anyone use a meal prep service they love? We typically do Hello Fresh or Home Chef for 3 meals per week in Jan/Feb because we are all bogged down with work and school and the family is tired of my recipes. If you do for 6-8 weeks and then cancel it is surprisingly inexpensive because of the introductory discounts. Wish they had organic meat though. |
| I feel you, OP, because we're in a similar boat (special needs kids makes a lot of this harder). I agree that it might be helpful to cut down on takeout. But the convenience factor, especially with a SN kid is totally understandable. For us, finding very easy meals that was as easy as takeout was key. This could look like assembling frozen meals at Trader Joe's (try the TJ's for busy moms facebook group); assembling crock pot "dump" bags once a month to make it easy to have a meal ready; and Costco also has some great easy prep meals that are way cheaper than takeout. |
This is essentially it. Produce sometimes goes bad wherever you get it from. And all grocery stores have return policies. I’ve talked to friends who complain about the shopping cart quarter, bagging your own groceries, needing your own bags, the produce stacked in their original boxes, less selection, etc. if you want to spend 2x the Aldi price for milk, great. |
| that’s. A LOt of takeout and a LOT of garbage you are shoving in your mouth. what a waste that you buy organic when you negate all of that with the chronic take out junk. |
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OP--you are at a stressful stage of life. Assuming you can "afford" the $40 K for food, I think it's important that you give yourselves a little grace. Maybe the takeout gives you time to spend with your young children that you wouldn't otherwise have. Or time for some self-care to deal with the stress of your work life which allows you to pay for food and everything else. When I was in your shoes, there were plenty of nights (pre-pandemic) when we needed a break and we'd go out for an impromptu restaurant meal or order takeout.
My only suggestion is to watch what you are drinking as that can add up. Of course, any alcohol adds expense to your "grocery" budget, but also things like teas, juices, etc. Then there's water: if you're buying bottled, that's an area to consider reducing. Also, "tipflation" is a thing, so if you are tipping 20-25% and picking up your own takeout, I'd consider whether that's appropriate given the level of service provided. The excessive tipping on meals that involved no service other than meal prep is a practice from the pandemic years that needs to be scaled back. Let the restaurant owners pay their employees a decent wage. |
No, “this [people being snobs]” is not the reason many people avoid Aldi. I already have to go to a health food supermarket to get many of the items that I use regularly. And then I still also go to a regular supermarket to get other some other items I like (gasp, Doritos). I don’t want to add a third supermarket, especially given that they have limited selection and the lines are often long (at least at the Rockville store). I consider myself very frugal, but it’s still not worth it for me. |
| I don’t understand how you can possibly be spending that much! We eat out or get take out at least twice a week, often more and I feel bad that we spend about $1k a month doing so. How on earth do you get to $40k a year?! |