Well, no. She’s saving almost twice what you are. Pretty sure she’ll be OK. |
| 350k, save 65k. But we have some big expenses - college aged kids, had to get new cars in past 2 years, and some house repairs and improvements plus some high medical expenses. So hope to save more in the coming years. |
Look, you suck at math. You save $110k/year and PP saves $200k/year. She's saving more than you. That means she could retire earlier than you and have a better lifestyle. Yet you claim you're out saving her. She's saving plenty of money, and it's not imprudent for her to spend substantial amounts of money. You don't get any reward for saving a higher percentage of your income. |
This is my favorite answer. Stuff that in your pipe and smoke it. |
No one cares. PP is saving more than you and enjoying life more too. Living on 40k per year sounds miserable. You probably stress over every penny. |
Her math is fine. She's counting half of $200k on purpose. "You save $200K, but since you're married, only $100K of that really "belongs" to you." |
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we had kids early, so are now empty nesters at age 45 and peak earning years. we make around 600k and live very well off net 15k/mo. we max out our 401ks and HSA and then put another 16k/mo into taxable brokerage accounts.
so all in all, not including employer match plus HSA we put away 52k pre tax money and 192k into brokerage. obviously since we no longer have kids at home and we are still young it is easy to heavily save and not feel a sacrifice. our mortgage is also very low, we will live in the home we raised our kids in so our PITI is only $1900/mo. We do sometimes crack into our brokerage account for big purchases. We still take our grown children on vacation with us and pay their way. however we can travel “non peak” and are off for 12 days after NYE for somewhere that would be double they price over christmas. everyone thought we were crazy having kids so early, but it’s actually been a financial boom. it’s nice to be mid 40s and have adult kids we really enjoy and have hit the sweet spot in our careers. |
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HHI 900k to 120k
Saving about roughly 50% after tax. About 350k a year. Tax is our biggest expense . So in retirement, our expense will go down significantly. Net worth 3.2 mil We ve only make this income about 5 years ago. First generation immigrants. We were in this country for over 15 years, never make more than 80k to 100 k . Our biggest mistake back then was not contributing to Roth IRA or 401 sooner. ( we didn’t know what they were) |
Wow, how did you increase your income that much? With that income, you can easily recover from your "mistakes." And trust me, starting Roth early and putting in max for the first years of your career isn't all that magical. I did that before earning too much to qualify for contributions and our Roths are still the smallest accounts we own. You'll be in fine shape saving $350k/year. |
| DH and I are nearly 40, two kids, 4 &7. We earn 200 HHI plus generate a $48,000 a year post tax profit from an income property. Our net worth is currently $1.8 million and after purchasing a second home to live in (we’ve been renting) we aim to save $75-$90k a year. Feel like we should be doing better compared to everyone else! |
| We are now retired but when we were working we were big savers. We maxed retirement accounts, saved all bonuses, funded 529s and saved even more after that. We started saving soon after we got married and with many years of compounding our savings really added up. Our annual dividend income is now equal to what our W-2 income was 15 years ago. |
Why? Wierd. I’m never impressed by these answers. |
I don’t see how this is possible. Taxes are going to take most of the other 45%. What do you live on? |
Federal taxes are about 30%, no state income tax. We spend about $150k per year, or about $12k per month. |
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We paid off our 30 year mortgage in 11 years, so after that, most of what we earn is gravy, except for taxes and insurance. A sizable portion goes into savings and investment (some stocks and mutual funds, but mainly rental incomes).
Rental incomes are good because its like a dividend check every month, you own physical property and it can't just up and disappear like paper in Wall Street in a "crisis". |