Mess? Ignorant comment. |
Exactly this. SR is a well-oiled machine and it shows. |
| Visi should go grab the Langley coach again… |
| Visi should hire one of the dads who were behind this. Clearly, they all think they know more lacrosse than anyone the AD will eventually hire. |
So much talent on that team. Why do the dad's need or want to be involved unless there's no coach. Most high school girls would not want their parents as the official or even worse unofficial coach since it makes for a weird social dynamic with their teammates. These girls need to be a part of strong, positive team culture because I'm guessing they plan to play in college and that's all about the team. And no matter how good you were in high school the playing field starts level all over again and as freshman they have to start earning everything all over again. |
Wait, I thought he resigned and is moving out of the area? |
This is awesome. Every timeI hear wheels I want to barf. |
When I coached rec years ago, I told parents that I'd sit their kid if I heard them yell "wheels" or "you're hot". Both nauseating. |
Can’t speak to SR’s admissions process vis a vis athletes, but this is a crazy comment re Visi. Visi has tons of outstanding athletes and has years of strong athletic performances across many sports. I don’t think any private schools in the DMV offer athletic scholarships so if you are thinking if only Visi gave athletes financial assistance you are barking up the wrong tree. Different schools have different resources for offering financial aid and families choose the school/aid package that works best for them. A huge percentage of the kids don’t even qualify for aid. And yes there have been teams that have “underperformed” but we are talking about high school kids sports—these are not professional athletes or even athletes at top D1 schools (although a good number from Visi will go on to play at top schools). Also please remember that coaches are paid garbage salaries at best, small seasonal stipends are the norm. Some coaches are the right fit for a school culture, some are not. Some have a great grasp of the game, but aren’t able to connect with the kids (or vice versa). Finding the coach who ticks all the boxes AND is willing to endure abusive parents while getting paid peanuts is extraordinarily difficult task. |
wow, you must be an amazing coach! |
It was rec, not Division 1. The kids had fun and learned how to play a bit. |
Second paragraph is spot on. Not easy finding great high school coaches these days. |
I think a big part of the problem is the low coaching salaries. I know a coach who was fired from one of the top ISL programs a few years back and she was relieved to not have to deal with constant whining from players and their parents for $4k per year. She was a former all American and great coach who was doing the job because she loved coaching and lacrosse but was getting pressure from board members to play certain girls and was hounded by parents at all hours. I think coaches should be paid more and I also think parents need some stiff guidelines for what’s appropriate when reaching out to a coach. |
| $4K??? I wish! Or maybe I need to talk to my AD, I’m getting robbed. Lol |
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I don’t know if they’d want the job but if I was the AD at some of the privates I’d set my sights on Centreville head coach and some of her people.
What she did out there in her time has been exciting to watch. Turned a dying program that everyone just looked at as an easy win into a program that on the right night could run with any team. |