Yeah, that was a “sorry you felt that way” non-apology. Gross. |
Who said it was? Oh, right. No one. |
I know two Muhlenberg students. One colleague. Would not describe as quirky at all. She loved it. Also know a good friend’s son. He’s great. Maybe quirky. Into theater + wants to be a math teacher. Really really smart kid. He loved it too. |
I'm confused what/why you are asking OP?
Your daughter has many choices that are large schools and she has one choice that is totally different that she feels uncertain about after a virtual admitted student session (and that she felt was too small when you visited the first time). My take-away from your scenario would be "GREAT! Let's strike that one off the list and move on to choosing among the others" She doesn't seem to want to go - so what exactly are you asking here? For us to "talk YOU into" talking HER into wanting to go to Muhlenberg? |
+10. Helpful. |
Yeah. Muhlenberg is a good school but Allentown is a bit of a bummer compared to a vibrant college town like Bloomington, IN or an Ann Arbor or Pitt or Chapel Hill.... |
+10 |
Congrats to your daughter on her acceptances! I grew up in NJ and had several friends go to (and love their experience) at Muhlenberg. I have two honor roll kids who both have learning issues -- one with Inattentive type ADHD and the other with mild dyslexia/dysgraphia. I'm grateful for their IEPs which allow them to have extra time on tests(my child with dyslexia also does not lost points for spelling errors on in-class writing or exams). Other than the learning issues, no one would consider ether qiuirky or different than the mainstream. I love that less kids are slipping through the cracks -- no longer labeled as "Lazy" when they just have a learning difference. I'm assuming that this other parent on the zoom just wanted to make sure that their child was going to a place that would allow them to thrive too. Don't assume the worst. Good luck to your daughter. |
+1 Thank you. This is a sweet post and helpful and encouraging. YOur kids sound wonderful. Good Luck to you and your children too. ![]() |
This is the absolute reality of the situation...if you care at all about the location of the college and what the local community offers then it is an easy choice with some of the other alternatives. Muhlenberg is in a quiet, nice residential area of Allentown. I can't imagine being there without a car (or a roommate who has a car) as there is really nothing of much interest within walking distance. Downtown Allentown offers very little and to say you can walk there is technically true...but it is like a 1.5 - 2 mile walk, and the neighborhoods get sketchy as you walk. It is the classic PA town that was vibrant up until like the 1970s, but while now a bit revitalized...has seen many better days. There is a nice, large Farmers' Market within maybe a 1/2 mile walk, and the annual Fair is fun (same location as Farmers' Market)....but not sure either of those activities are appealing to college students. |
Never heard of the school. Based on its name I thought it was an international German school. I personally would hard pass and go with something a bit more name recognizable. |
Just skip threads then. This contributed nothing. |
dP but it did contribute something - public perception of the college |
YES!! YES!! YES!! Great place! |
I went there and hated every minute of it. Transferred out after a year and a half. It’s good if you’re super quirky and into theater. Very provincial- not a lot of geographic diversity. |