But not @ Ivies, some top NESCACs, and some other top ranked schools. Their aid is mainly need-based. And if you need merit to make it work, then accept that it is not going to happen. |
I'm the PP. FWIW, I was a full aid/loan kid and worked similarly to you in summers and during the school year. Many states do not have minimum wage in excess of the current federal wage of $7.25/hour. So yes, your suggestion works in states where students are able to pull down $11 and up, but less tenable in a lot of states. |
Two things. One, if it's a school that offers merit aid as a matter of routine, a coupon most people get, they will still do that during the ED round. What's more you should talk to them before submitting and have them give you a pre-read on merit aid. If it doesn't come through you have an out. Two, if it's a school that seldom gives merit, you don't need to compare offers, you already know that school costs more than you want to pay, doesn't matter whether the acceptance is ED or RD. So I don't get the grievance. Now are there schools looking for more full pay families? Of course, and they do use ED to secure those applications. This isn't a scam, it's what those families are willing to pay, and why they apply early. |
Yes, I was poor and received significant aid. But for MD/DC/MD (the main audience for this forum), it is tenable. And in some states min wage much higher. But I'd argue everyone should aim to attend school without taking out major loans. And it's possible if you search out universities that give merit or attend state schools that you can afford. With kids working and parents helping a bit you can come out of a good 4 year university with less than $25K in loans. But people somehow feel they are entitled to the elite experience, rather than focusing on what is affordable. MY own average kid found schools that only cost $20K/year and we were not even searching for merit. They also found a T40 school that only cost $40K/year due to merit and a T120 that only cost ~$28K. Had we been searching we could have lower the costs even more, while still attending good schools. What you do at college is much more important than where you go. Graduating with minimal debt is much more important to your kid than where they went (no school is worth $80K if you don't already have the money saved, earmarked for that purpose). |
Most schools do not do this. |
You are making a claim that things have changed? You are going to have to back that up. But you can't because there is no evidence it has changed at all. You don't even have a made up explanation, and you haven't read the book. Read the book, tell us what has changed that is different than the 500,000 applications the authors studied, and then maybe you'll be worth listening to. |
Just be careful with the "can't afford it" ED withdrawal. Schools will generally let you do it without a ton of conflict. However as others have noted, if you truly "cannot afford" the financial aid offer your kid gets at a meets-full-need-no-loan school (like the places people complain about the ED vs. RD acceptance rates), your kid's offer goes away and you may not get a better one...
Example: Kid gets into ED school. Family says aid (all need based at this "top" school) won't work; they can't afford it, even though their demonstrated need is being met. Kid turns down acceptance, school says OK, goodbye and good luck. His RD acceptances/aid awards come in -- they were LESS AID than the ED aid award and doesn't get the little merit some of the top places dole out. Goes back to the ED school -- they say, sorry, if you couldn't afford it then, you can't afford it now, you no longer have an offer. Heard of this happening more than once. If your kid gets ED to a full need school and you can't afford the offer, they need to apply to a whole bunch of other schools (state publics, high acceptance/high merit places, etc) pronto. The likelihood your need-based aid at other schools is going to better than the ED school is slim to none, and the ED school isn't going to let you sit around and compare. |
Do you mind sharing which schools these are? |
But some do. Both my kids applied to a school (different schools) that asked us point blank what we thought we could afford to pay. Now you could see that as pressuring us to put down a big number, or just take it as an honest question. Both the family and the school have their number, may as well figure that out from the get go. This doesn’t prevent anyone from applying or avoiding ED, it just makes clear that ability to pay will be a factor. |