So send an email. |
Then there are the parents that get upset if elementary kids do their work on screens. This is one of the many challenges of education--what one group of parents think everyone is "fine with" is what the other group is yelling and complaining about. Some love deep projects others want worksheets. Some want technology solutions others want no screens. All assume that what they want is more common, more valid than what others want. |
My kid does RSM for math enrichment. The kids are sent home with paper worksheets to complete. They are supposed to complete those and then enter their answers into the computer for checks. They ask the parents to take a picture of the worksheets and load them into the computer. We don't take the picture but we do send in DS with his completed worksheets. So there is a way of balancing doing the work on paper and using the computer to check the answers. |
Well in ES those are meaningless. |
So the teacher has to data entry all the students work and have the computer check the answers? That doesn't seem reasonable for a public school teacher with their workload. |
You are only contributing to the problem. The problem right now is that the school administration and school board have pushed so many administrative tasks onto the teachers that they have less time per child. In addition, as teachers leave the profession, the class sizes are rising, which again decreases time per child. The teachers are overwhelmed. Adding in parent teacher meetings will only exacerbate the problem by taking more and more time away from the teacher's ability to address anything for the bulk of children. Your entire attitude will make the problem worse. Parents like you are one of the primary reasons that teachers are leaving the profession. Will you be happy if you decide to browbeat and harass the teacher and they decide to leave the profession and you get a long-term or short-term sub with no teaching credentials, no curriculum and no lesson plans to just make up busy work for your child for an entire quarter while they try to find someone to replace the teacher you helped to chase out? Will you be happy if because of the harassment, that your child is no longer given homework at all just to allow the teacher to cut back to a 10 hour work day and a 55 hour work week? Parents should be advocating with the school board to reduce administrative overhead tasks from teachers. The teachers need to get many of those administrative tasks removed from their schedules so that they have more time in their schedules to address student issues. Harassing and browbeating teachers is not going to improve your child's education. But getting teacher's away from administrative tasks and back to teaching will. Devote that aggression and energy into helping to improve teacher work conditions and you'll find it will have a bigger effect on improving your child's education than just piling on to the overwhelming schedule and tasks of your child's teacher. |
No homework means less stress for the teacher. It also means I have to assign my kid to do work, or pay for a tutor, so they can get re-enforcement and have a clue what they're actually learning and to what degree they have actually mastered it. American schools are a joke compared to back home where they have far more students per classroom and far less funding per student. |
And yet you are here. |
Yep, and somehow a lower resourced school system outperforms the US system. We should demand far better. |
Wait? Parents should be advocating for changes in teachers' working conditions? That's interesting because we were told for more than a year that teacher working conditions are none of our business. |
Parents like me have been your biggest supporter over the last 2 years- so your assumption made me laugh out loud just now. But, parents like me also expect that if I have a legitimate question and concern with my child's learning, and how DC is getting feedback, you will hear about it. If "parents like me" piss you off for doing that (and to be clear, I have not not had to do this thus far but would not hesitate) so be it. Your admin burdens are not my problem. I will support you and all teachers to the maximum until you stop doing your job to effectively teach my kid. I don't care what you think about me, whether I"m a problem, etc. |
Just to clarify, I am not a teacher nor have I ever been a teacher. I am a parent that gets along well with my children's teachers and I am as supportive as possible wherever and however I can be. I do not DEMAND actions from my children's teachers, but I highlight issues and ask them to help me solve them. I get answers because I act nicely and ask rather than demand. And I am also more patient. You seem to expect answers quickly and your imperious tone is very abrasive. But go ahead, say you are a big supporter while treating them like a servant. |
And quite obviously, "interventions" could (and in this situation likely does) mean getting help in a specific class, such as a tutor. |
Are you also "so very sad" about the vehement teachers on this thread? Because as a parent, those are the ones I'm nervous about encountering. |
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I read this entire thread and it seems pretty clear to me that there are a few posters with extreme anxiety over their children, and they are expressing this by being very abrasive and rude. Teachers, who are currently going through a very stressful start to a new year, are reacting with frustration.
Parents; I know we live in an instant gratification society, but that is just not possible with teaching. I'm sure that your child's teacher cares deeply about their learning and supports them, but these approaches will not form a productive partnership. Some parents and teachers are trying to help by explaining that via this thread, and I hope that you take their word for it, because what you are looking for is not only impossible, but it has never been the standard. |