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My child's worst year was when a supposedly NT child kept having behavioral issues and the teacher was at a loss to handle because the parents denied anything was wrong. This child continually lost it in class, was defiant and disruptive to everyone and the parents did nothing to control the behavior.
It's not the kids with IEPs that are the issue. Having an IEP means the school and the parents recognize there's a challenge and are working on it. The worst is those parents who deny anything is going on. |
At our school, those kids gets pushed into the cluster class too |
Thank you teacher. I don't know why everyone keeps blaming the IEP kids. The worst behavior at our school occurs from the kids without IEPs. |
+1 They use the well behaved kids to try to outweigh the not so much. The well behaved kids become the aides. |
This happens in AP too. |
I think the point PP is trying to make is this is your daughter's issue and that she can't be that academic if she's bothered by something that's really normal and that is part of real life. |
Sometimes their parents deny them IEPS, and the teachers are forced to use the well behaved kids to help teach and instruct 1:1. More parents need to be aware of this practice in FCPS. There just are not enough aides, or enough parents willing to do what is needed. |
Yep and this has been going on for decades. I remember I was always paired with the disruptive kid when I was in school. It wasn't fair and made group projects a disaster. I typically just had to do most of the work myself. |
Why didn’t you ask for a classroom switch? |
I have one of these kids too and I only heard a slight grumble once early on about Larlo being difficult to work with. I quickly put a stop to that saying that it's part of school and learning for DC to work with all kinds of kids including those who don't do as well in cooperation or who may struggle with certain tasks. Sometimes kids with some types of SN think more creatively or out of the box than others and if have a partner who can pull those ideas out of that child you may one day have a cure for cancer or AIDS or global warming. I would never ask a teacher to "stop" this grouping because it's just part of normal school and teacher's job trying to create groups that will be productive. |
They are still learning… it may not be at the pace you want but that isn’t specified by law. Admin and teachers have to follow the law before the needs of the the other kids. Sorry, it is what it is. You should lobby for more flexibility for students to be transferred to other programs/schools; because now, it is virtually impossible to do that without SPED parents suing the district. |
My child was in a classroom with a cluster of children with IEPs for many years. DC is easy going and academically ahead. Maybe another child requested DC or maybe it was random. Never saw it as a problem. DC learned just the same. |
Your child already had anxiety to begin with PP. Your child is probably the only child in the classroom who reacted this way. This does happen in the lower elementary grades across the country because of increased demands of K and 1st and is not that different from behavior you'd see in preschools. Instead of making vile comments about how kids with SN will not amounting to anything you should be focusing on how to help your child so she does not have this type of reaction to other hardships she encounters in the future. |
+1 Hey, more opportunity to tell people about the law!! Schools only must provide a “serviceable Chevrolet,” not a Cadillac, to afford a student a free appropriate public education (FAPE). The analogy is often associated with the seminal U.S. Supreme Court case known as Rowley, which said that public education requires only a “basic floor of opportunity,” not that schools “maximize” a child’s educational potential. The “Chevy vs. Cadillac” analogy was coined and used by lower courts after Rowley, and suggests that schools need only provide a bare minimum of services to afford a student FAPE. |
That's true, but parents and other kids don't have to be happy about being in one class that moves far slower than the other classes. |