DH’s quarantine laziness is a huge turn off

[Anonymous]

He has been “working” about 2 hours per day and watching crap TV. I see this as a huge opportunity to so some personal projects. It’s a real turn off to watch someone just waste away. Anybody relate?

[Anonymous]

And how many days has this been going on ?

[Anonymous]

What kind of work do you do?

[Anonymous]

For me this would totally be dependent on what he does for a living. Is he taking advantage of the WFH situation or has his work truly slowed down.

[Anonymous]

What kind of personal projects? If he doesn’t normally work from home cut him some slack. I am having to work at home for the first time and it’s weird and depressing and I’m bored as hell. I have probably 5 hours a day of doing nothing too. If DH judged me I’d be upset, as any other time I’m in the office killing it but this wasn’t my choice.

[Anonymous]

I've learned this week that my DH, and his colleagues, do about an hour of work, and seven hours of talking about work.

[Anonymous]

You're Type A.

He's tired.

[Anonymous]

Picture me caring.

[Anonymous]

This is the time for self-care and chilling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And how many days has this been going on ?

About a week

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're Type A.

He's tired.

This is probably true on both accounts. I unwind much less easily than he does. If it only goes on another few days I can take it but if he goes into full lazy mode I will not enjoy that.

To the other poster who asked - he is a professor. So he now has to upload noted 3 times a week and that is the extent if his “work” - of course he has many other things to do regarding his research and other side projects - things he complains he doesn’t normally have enough time to do to his satisfaction. Well, pal, now is your chance!!!!

We don’t have kids or pets.

[Anonymous]

Even a global pandemic can't stop DCUM women grumbling about their husbands.

[Anonymous]

And ?

How about you do you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And ?

How about you do you.

Honey is that you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He has been “working” about 2 hours per day and watching crap TV. I see this as a huge opportunity to so some personal projects. It’s a real turn off to watch someone just waste away. Anybody relate?

Why do all wives need to be naggy like this? Let him chill. Why don't YOU do the personal projects? You and my wife may be in cahoots!