Misread positive signals of a first date

[Anonymous]

I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

Man here:

1. If I said I’d like to see her again I would definitely follow up.
2. If it was after a first date I’d have to be very interested in her to do an hour round trip. That’s why Uber exists.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

Man here:

1. If I said I’d like to see her again I would definitely follow up.
2. If it was after a first date I’d have to be very interested in her to do an hour round trip. That’s why Uber exists.

Yes, and I would only accept that if I was really into him.

[Anonymous]

If on the first date I really liked someone and told her so I would follow up the next day. And if I really liked her I would make the one hour drive. But if the first date was just OK I’m not enough of a gentleman to make the drive but I’d consider springing for the Uber ride and wait until it arrived.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

Like the others upthread, I wouldn't say these things if I didn't mean them. Anyone who does so and doesn't follow through is a jerk.

I would offer on the ride home, but the Uber thing would depend on how well I knew her, because it would involve having to ask for her street address which is not cool if she's a virtual stranger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

Like the others upthread, I wouldn't say these things if I didn't mean them. Anyone who does so and doesn't follow through is a jerk.

I would offer on the ride home, but the Uber thing would depend on how well I knew her, because it would involve having to ask for her street address which is not cool if she's a virtual stranger.

I see, but would you give her a ride home simply because you’re a gentleman? Would you give a ride to someone you’re not interested in?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

1. I will say whatever I think she wants to hear. I don't mean any of it.

2. Is anal on the table? I'd drive her home for anal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

1. I will say whatever I think she wants to hear. I don't mean any of it.

2. Is anal on the table? I'd drive her home for anal.

No it’s not on the table lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I saw this topic on another post. No I’m curious about the misread signals of a first date.

Men,

1. On a first date if you say you enjoy spending time with her and mention how you would like to see her again, why would you not follow through with the aforementioned second date after saying all of those things to her?

2. Would you make an hour round trip to drop her off at home simply because you’re trying to be a gentleman? Not because you’re interested in her?

1. I will say whatever I think she wants to hear. I don't mean any of it.

2. Is anal on the table? I'd drive her home for anal.

No it’s not on the table lol

Then it's not happening

[Anonymous]

If I really had a good time and wanted to see someone again I’d say it and follow up. No BS. If she had a very good time I’d be very willing to do the one hour round trip if I thought breakfast might be included. Would it?

[Anonymous]

wTF is this 1950 all over again???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I really had a good time and wanted to see someone again I’d say it and follow up. No BS. If she had a very good time I’d be very willing to do the one hour round trip if I thought breakfast might be included. Would it?

No, it’s not.

So what you’re saying is if you weren’t interested, unless sex was involved, you wouldn’t do the hour round trip taking her home?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I really had a good time and wanted to see someone again I’d say it and follow up. No BS. If she had a very good time I’d be very willing to do the one hour round trip if I thought breakfast might be included. Would it?

No, it’s not.

So what you’re saying is if you weren’t interested, unless sex was involved, you wouldn’t do the hour round trip taking her home?

If I was interested I would drive her home, sex or no sex. If not interested I would not drive her home, sex or no sex.