Oh, right. Duh. |
People, please learn that “viscous” and “vicious”’are different words! |
I'm surprised by the posters shedding tears for Bethenny. I have never seen Andy so defend one of the members of his show as last night. His favoritism was shocking. Bethenny isn't a kind person. She is a person who looks down on most other people. Over the years, and it has gotten so much worse, B has shown that she thinks she is bigger, better, smarter, classier than everyone. We've never seen a relationship that she didn't torpodeo. She has to be the alpha. Always. Anyone who doesn't play the lesser gets destroyed. I think Carole and she are fundamentally different re morality. Carole would rather be a nice person. B couldn't care less. I'm sure Carole saw the real side of B and imagine what that is like given what we see on tv. I do agree with B that the others are in denial about Dorinda's drinking problem but on these shows the women often agree not to broach some problems on tv. Both Lou and Sonja have had substance abuse problems and they were never addressed directly. It was widely speculated that Dorinda and John had problems with coke. Dorinda wasn't honest about how she acted at the cabaret re the dresses. Dorinda was embarrasing. I love Dorinda and hope she gets help. I have no use for B. I wish they would send her off on another show. I'm also done with Sonja and wish she would go. The women are correct that it kills B to ever give any of the other women props for what they do. She belittles everyone in their endeavors. The nutcracker issue was an example. She belittles Dorinda for being upset but B contorted herself not to give her credit. She has done that in a lot of cases. B is about B and only gives the least amount of support to the other women. She's a pain to film with. She is not trustworthy. |
I put this on Jill, Bethenny and Andy. Just gross. It speaks volumes about Jill. |
And Bethenny will lie at the drop of a hat. I'm surprised viewers can't see how manipulative she is on camera. She is only friendly with people who are less than her. She will turn on Sonja in a second when she stops being a sychophant. |
I'm down with calling Bethenny out. She deserves it on many fronts.
What I am less down with is: -Taking zero responsibility for anything from Dorinda and Carole. Dorinda, you have a drinking problem in that when you drink you behave atrociously and you are cruel. Call it what you want. It's a problem for you. And you completely deny it. You have lost me there. Carole, you were EQUALLY horrid in the Bethenny dynamic. Girl, I can't take your BS that you didn't bash Bethenny. I mean?? -Clearly the three of them organized ahead of time to gang up on Bethenny. It was too over the top and too mean. Try expressing yourself like sane human beings and not shrill bullies and it might work out better for you. Ramona is laughable. If she is part of your dream team, you need a reality check. I find it interesting Tinsley stayed out of it. Wonder if that was calculated or she just couldn't keep up. |
I'm going with the latter. She hasn't really been part of anything the whole season, other than the Scott cabaret invitation stuff in the last episode. |
Has Tinsley been confirmed for next season? I'm over her. Boring. Her and Scott are going no where, so that story line isn't even remotely interesting anymore and it barely was anyway. |
Carole's definition of ride or die seems to be, once I've aligned myself with you I will never ever call you on any of your atrocious behavior.
When she was buds with Bethenny, she didn't call her on anything when she really should have (the screaming at LuAnn business). And now Dorinda. You're really not going to tell Dorinda that she is a drunken, Joker-esque, hot mess? That's not my definition of a good friend. My definition of a good friend is someone who kindly points out to me when I'm going down the wrong path. |
I think you are right. that's a good point |
Off-screen though. Not as a character on TV. That's what a real friend would do. |
I totally understand what you are saying, but it can't really work that way when the horrid behavior is on camera. These women have chosen to put their lives out there. We can all see when Bethenny screams like an unhinged lunatic or Dorinda blacks out and insults people. There is no unseeing it. And then the behavior is discussed because that's the format of the show. Sure, do it in a kind and constructive way with your friend, but to sit there and deny it publicly is delusional. |
I lost a lot of respect for Andy Cohen over him protecting Betheny. If he's going to encourage the friendships to be conducted in the Thunderdome, he should be willing to let B suffer the natural consequences of being a complete selfish, insufferable b***h to every single castmate. |
He is never neutral in the reunions. I think he usually takes the position of the “average” Bravo viewer...whatever the popular opinion is in that particular storyline or season. He’s not moderating a presidential debate!!! I just don’t think there’s any expectation or need for him to be totally neutral. |
Carole has been right and has had many valid points this season.
But when she came out screeching about the Dream Team? Yeah, done with you. Tinsley May be boring and ditzy, but she is too genuinely kind and fair to go after someone in a calculated way. She shut down Ramona’s too-low blows. Respect. |