I dislike my husband's current hairdo

[Anonymous]

He's growing it out and I really don't find it attractive. I came across an old picture of him with a hairstyle that I LOVED on him and it made me realize how much I really dislike his current hair. He told me recently he liked his new hair and asked what I think. I just kind of shrugged. How do I tell him I find it very unattractive on him?

Don't get me wrong, I think long hair looks great on some men, just not on my husband.

[Anonymous]

Let him figure it out on his own. How would you feel if he tried to control how you styled your hair?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's growing it out and I really don't find it attractive. I came across an old picture of him with a hairstyle that I LOVED on him and it made me realize how much I really dislike his current hair. He told me recently he liked his new hair and asked what I think. I just kind of shrugged. How do I tell him I find it very unattractive on him?

Don't get me wrong, I think long hair looks great on some men, just not on my husband.

Honestly what men care that much.

[Anonymous]

Just tell him you preferred a different hairstyle.

[Anonymous]

Tell him. I tell my wife I like her hair better long. Being attractive for your spouse is important.

[Anonymous]

I care what my wife thinks because she puts out. Sometimes.

If she starts putting out any less I would care less what she thinks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell him. I tell my wife I like her hair better long. Being attractive for your spouse is important.

Dp I don't think op should and neither should you. You should be able to do what you want with your head.

[Anonymous]

He asked, you shrugged. Seems pretty clear that you don't like it.

[Anonymous]

"Hair-DO" ... ? My sexism comes out ... do men have hairdos? or just hair cuts? Sounds weird to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell him. I tell my wife I like her hair better long. Being attractive for your spouse is important.

Dp I don't think op should and neither should you. You should be able to do what you want with your head.

Of course you can do what you want with your body, you can gain weight, get tattoos, get a nose ring, grow a long beard but you can count on your partner to be attracted to you if you make a big change.

[Anonymous]

Tell him how much money can be saved, and then cut it for him to suit you.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

You can tell him. Doesn't mean he'll do anything about it. My DH has a dumb goatee that makes me crazy.

I told him I don't like it. He keeps it. Oh well.

[Anonymous]

I’m certain that over the years there have been things he didn’t like about you and put up with: ugly clothes, weight gain (or too much loss), bad makeup, bad hair, hygiene issues. Deal with it as long as he’s happy.

[Anonymous]

Nonchalantly show him the old photo and gush about how much you love his hair in it.