Someone needs to take a deep look inside
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Anonymous
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A friend of mine was dating a married women for the last 13 months. She is a stay at home mom with a 4th grader. Been married for over 20 years and obviously not happy.
The other day he ended with her saying if your not going to at least look at getting a divorce and moving on I am. This did not set very well with her. Her response was quite interesting: She said I will be ok I’m pretty,smart,young (45) and well off... I will move on to another. What is wrong with some people. Get a divorce so you can live your life. I feel sorry for her DH and child as they have no clue what is going on |
Anonymous
| She needs to get a clue and your friend sounds like he did the right thing and should get tested immediately |
Anonymous
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A 45 year old woman who has been a SAHM for the last 20 years probably has relatively bleak prospects for work or a fling.
She’s passed her childbearing years and has been out of the workforce for years so her job and relationship prospects are less than stellar. People are willing to put up with unhappy marriages or relationships when they perceive their options as minimal at best. I doubt she wants to give up her cushy lifestyle so remaining a SAHM and having a side piece is where she’s most comfortable. It’s her life to waste. |
Anonymous
| At least the guy got out before it got ugly..... as for her ..... |
Anonymous
| Why do some people even bother getting married SMH |
Anonymous
| What a POS |
Anonymous
| Eh, she gets to have her cake and eat it, too. Cushy lifestyle plus a side piece. I’d take that over working full time, a downgrade in standard of living, and dealing with men that want a commitment. |
Anonymous
Yes a real role model to her child. Scum |
Anonymous
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I have a friend in a similar situation. She has a cushy life and a side piece. TBH, I’m jealous. I have to slug away at a mediocre job with long hours and my DH is moody and hardly around. I’d leave but I need his income and security. Sucks....
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Anonymous
Do you have any dignity? Self pride? |
Anonymous
I do but I’m in my mid-50s yet look a lot older (closer to 68), so no way I’d find another man. And I don’t have money. Got myself stuck. |
Anonymous
| She sounds just awful. With all the single, free and available women out there, your friend had to get involved with this woman? He needs set higher standards for himself or he will be doomed to a life of misery. |
Anonymous
I was thinking the same. It's obvious why a parent wouldn't just divorce over lack of sex and anyone who doesn't have kids can't understand. Man here, married 15 years to a low drive wife and can totally empathize. |
Anonymous
So it’s ok with you that she moves on from one guy to another? Come on who you kidding |
Anonymous
| I’d need more info on the situation but I suspect her AP doesn’t offer all that he thinks he does. |