Someone needs to take a deep look inside

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She sounds just awful. With all the single, free and available women out there, your friend had to get involved with this woman? He needs set higher standards for himself or he will be doomed to a life of misery.

Don't understand why guys do this. There are plenty of unmarried women out there if you want someone who is available.

Maybe she’s one in a million, so worth going for it. 99% of women are not.

She's a married mother who is cheating on her husband and has just told her AP that he's a dime a dozen and easy to replace. Not sure that she's one in a million but she certainly is a real piece of work.

Yes, guys are a dime a dozen but I wouldn't say she's a piece of work, variety is the spice of life!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine was dating a married women for the last 13 months. She is a stay at home mom with a 4th grader. Been married for over 20 years and obviously not happy.
The other day he ended with her saying if your not going to at least look at getting a divorce and moving on I am. This did not set very well with her.
Her response was quite interesting: She said I will be ok I’m pretty,smart,young (45) and well off... I will move on to another.
What is wrong with some people. Get a divorce so you can live your life. I feel sorry for her DH and child as they have no clue what is going on

NP here. Sounds like your friend was lacking in many ways or she’d have seen that lawyer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She sounds just awful. With all the single, free and available women out there, your friend had to get involved with this woman? He needs set higher standards for himself or he will be doomed to a life of misery.

Don't understand why guys do this. There are plenty of unmarried women out there if you want someone who is available.

Maybe she’s one in a million, so worth going for it. 99% of women are not.

She's a married mother who is cheating on her husband and has just told her AP that he's a dime a dozen and easy to replace. Not sure that she's one in a million but she certainly is a real piece of work.

Men are easy to replace when it comes to sex. There are millions out there who would have no problem with a casual affair with a married woman.

I don’t see what her being a mother has to do with anything. I’ve never heard anyone say “but he’s a FATHER!” in regards to a cheating man.

Maybe she’s a POS, maybe she’s just a human in bad circumstances. Regardless, if you want commitment, don’t get involved with a married person. They never leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine was dating a married women for the last 13 months. She is a stay at home mom with a 4th grader. Been married for over 20 years and obviously not happy.
The other day he ended with her saying if your not going to at least look at getting a divorce and moving on I am. This did not set very well with her.
Her response was quite interesting: She said I will be ok I’m pretty,smart,young (45) and well off... I will move on to another.
What is wrong with some people. Get a divorce so you can live your life. I feel sorry for her DH and child as they have no clue what is going on

NP here. Sounds like your friend was lacking in many ways or she’d have seen that lawyer.

Sounds like she’s a little crazy to me...I agree with the previous post “they never leave “. But she was the one who said she was.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine was dating a married women for the last 13 months. She is a stay at home mom with a 4th grader. Been married for over 20 years and obviously not happy.
The other day he ended with her saying if your not going to at least look at getting a divorce and moving on I am. This did not set very well with her.
Her response was quite interesting: She said I will be ok I’m pretty,smart,young (45) and well off... I will move on to another.
What is wrong with some people. Get a divorce so you can live your life. I feel sorry for her DH and child as they have no clue what is going on

NP here. Sounds like your friend was lacking in many ways or she’d have seen that lawyer.

Sounds like she’s a little crazy to me...I agree with the previous post “they never leave “. But she was the one who said she was.

Crazy like a fox...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine was dating a married women for the last 13 months. She is a stay at home mom with a 4th grader. Been married for over 20 years and obviously not happy.
The other day he ended with her saying if your not going to at least look at getting a divorce and moving on I am. This did not set very well with her.
Her response was quite interesting: She said I will be ok I’m pretty,smart,young (45) and well off... I will move on to another.
What is wrong with some people. Get a divorce so you can live your life. I feel sorry for her DH and child as they have no clue what is going on

NP here. Sounds like your friend was lacking in many ways or she’d have seen that lawyer.

Sounds like she’s a little crazy to me...I agree with the previous post “they never leave “. But she was the one who said she was.

Crazy like a fox...

Maybe still feel sorry for her

[Anonymous]

The person who “dated” a married mother for over a year doesn’t need to take a look inside? LOL you cannot make this crap up. Get a clue OP. You obviously have a crush on your “friend” who clearly doesn’t want you. He is messed up, move on and stop blaming the other (also messed up) woman involved.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’d need more info on the situation but I suspect her AP doesn’t offer all that he thinks he does.

Um do you understand the point of the story it’s not the AP, he left her....
It’s her moving from one guy to another and not having any respect for her husband and child ????

I’m guessing you’re not happy or sexual. The question marks are your tell, seething sweetheart.
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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The person who “dated” a married mother for over a year doesn’t need to take a look inside? LOL you cannot make this crap up. Get a clue OP. You obviously have a crush on your “friend” who clearly doesn’t want you. He is messed up, move on and stop blaming the other (also messed up) woman involved.

Nailed it.

[Anonymous]

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Men are easy to replace when it comes to sex. There are millions out there who would have no problem with a casual affair with a married woman.

I don’t see what her being a mother has to do with anything. I’ve never heard anyone say “but he’s a FATHER!” in regards to a cheating man.

Maybe she’s a POS, maybe she’s just a human in bad circumstances. Regardless, if you want commitment, don’t get involved with a married person. They never leave.

What's this "they never leave" b.s.? That's not my experience!

My wife was married when I met her. I was single, enjoying a carefree life, not looking for marriage but after 7 months of dating, she asked me to marry her! I wasn't quite ready and her marriage was stable, she had financial stability, a nice house, didn't have to work. I didn't want her to have any regrets so I held off but after a year she still wanted to get married so I pulled the trigger. We've been happily married and still hot for each other, 9 years later.

I think if the chemistry is right between two people, anything is possible, regardless if they're married or not.

[Anonymous]

This is pretty much common sense. She is a very disturbed individual person pretending to be normal. I've run across a few in my life time. They want the advantage of being perceived as normal but aren't. They hide behind a facade for security. The fly is another sick animal attracted to these creatures, he'll find another married woman in no time. Parasitic relationships are everywhere every walk of life.

Your friend is lucky she is merely looking for entertainment during her down time. Some get pregnant, have STDs, or the husband finds out and shoots them.

OP I'd dump this pos and find some quality friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Men are easy to replace when it comes to sex. There are millions out there who would have no problem with a casual affair with a married woman.

I don’t see what her being a mother has to do with anything. I’ve never heard anyone say “but he’s a FATHER!” in regards to a cheating man.

Maybe she’s a POS, maybe she’s just a human in bad circumstances. Regardless, if you want commitment, don’t get involved with a married person. They never leave.

What's this "they never leave" b.s.? That's not my experience!

My wife was married when I met her. I was single, enjoying a carefree life, not looking for marriage but after 7 months of dating, she asked me to marry her! I wasn't quite ready and her marriage was stable, she had financial stability, a nice house, didn't have to work. I didn't want her to have any regrets so I held off but after a year she still wanted to get married so I pulled the trigger. We've been happily married and still hot for each other, 9 years later.

I think if the chemistry is right between two people, anything is possible, regardless if they're married or not.

If you were a quality kid of guy you would have told her to give you a call...AFTER she was divorced.

Sorry but you'll never be able to trust this person. Nine years isn't very long fyi. If she'll do that to her own husband she'll likely repeat the pattern.

[Anonymous]

It could well be that she and her husband have an open marriage and they have no desire for a divorce. They might be very happy with the situation.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why posters on DCUM get so indignant about other people's affairs. It really seems to strike a nerve. I assume you all think you're a lot less sinful and may safely judge from a position of superiority. However, you know nothing about this person, OP. So many sins are "invisible", and are faults of omission, not commission. Perhaps she's a better person than you, and apart from this grave mistake she is making, she is more tolerant, kinder and more generous than you? It's a question, not an accusation. I don't know either of you, so I can't judge either!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is pretty much common sense. She is a very disturbed individual person pretending to be normal. I've run across a few in my life time. They want the advantage of being perceived as normal but aren't. They hide behind a facade for security. The fly is another sick animal attracted to these creatures, he'll find another married woman in no time. Parasitic relationships are everywhere every walk of life.

Your friend is lucky she is merely looking for entertainment during her down time. Some get pregnant, have STDs, or the husband finds out and shoots them.

OP I'd dump this pos and find some quality friends.

You sound angry. He cheat on you?