| I’m trying to wrap my head around the idea that men just really want sex rather than any of the other possible ways of being celebrated. |
| Sex for Father's Day is weird to me, isn't it about kids celebrating yheit2 parents (or the other parent/spouse making an effort but pretending it's "from" the kid)? |
| How can you NOT understand how meaningful sex is to men? I can’t wrap my head around that. Men want sex, a sandwich, and support. Period. They aren’t complicated. |
| If it weren’t for sex, there would be nothing to celebrate. So there’s that. |
| I'm a woman and can't understand why it's hard to understand. You think a man would rather have a watch or some ugly tie than have sex? You can't be serious. |
It's about the kids and dad. Not dad's sexual needs or what he thinks he's entitled to from his wife. |
OK well guess what WE don't always get what we want 24/7. Communication and talking are very important to woman as sex is to men. It's not complicated but isn't going to happen on demand. |
10 sec orgasm trumps the look of pride and happiness on your child’s face when you open and use that gift? |
you both are oversimplifying. Men are more complicated than we give them credit for. More complex. Sex may be at the top of their list, but it's at the top of many women's list too. I wish we would let men be more complex then sex and a sandwich. It is super reductive. |
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if my husband wants sex and makes a move, he's more likely than not to get it. But it wouldn't be on the top of my list for Father's Day.
I mean, on mother's Day I don't expect him to do anything because I'm not his mother. It's up to the kid to do that. And on Father's Day, I'm not going to be like hey you're such a good daddy here's a blowjob for you. That just feels icky but if he asked for sex like he would any other night: All good |
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It doesn’t have to be either or people!!! You can give it up to your DH and have the kids show their love with gifts too.
I don’t understand these women who complain about men wanting sex. Don’t you enjoy it?? |
Maybe their husbands aren't that good in bed? |
PP. good point. I have wondered if these women dolling out sex like sugar calories have ever had a big O, and if they get them on the regular in their marriage. You wouldn’t wait for your husband to ask for it, we both crave it from each other! |
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To answer subject questions:
Yes: men want sex for Father’s Day. Twenty five: there are 25 women on planet earth who want sex on Mother’s Day. |
Plus on Father's Day they want to lie on the couch and watch the U.S. Open. The final round is on FD every year. |