Men want sex for Father’s Day? How many women want sex for Mother’s Day?

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Anonymous wrote:LOL@ AMEX autocorrect from sex. But yes, that too. Initiate sex and you may have him initiating gifts for you on the Amex too!!

I don’t need gifts in exchange for marital sex. I like the sex and am not a prostitute. However, I don’t want sex for a Mother’s Day gift.

You want jewelry for Mother’s Day! Do you need gifts in exchange for non marital sex?

No. I don’t need DH to do anything. I do like when he cooks shrimp gumbo. I have never received anything in exchange for sex and would be deeply insulted if something was offered.

+1 Way to make sex within a marriage more like a prostitute/john situation.

The original comment had an effing TYPO. The statement was “initiate sex more and DH may initiate more of the things you want. Chores, kid stuff, cooking - whatever. It supported reciprocity as an act of LOVE in a marriage.

The second comment was a CORRECTION of the typo and a joke about autocorrecting to AMEX. Nevertheless the autocorrect could still be apropos for some families, as a hot marital bed will have your DH/DW finding reason to whip out the AMEX. Maybe even if it’s only for Chinese food or a massage.

My last comment is that you all are foolish. Marriage is shared everything - how is it prostitution???! And if you are going to stand by that, how are you as a wife not as bad as a man seeking prostitution, by saying your DH must (fill in the blank) to get me to (full in the blank)?! Is that not pay for play?!

Either way it’s an effing barter system. Uptight prudes. This is why your men stray. You don’t listen to male advice, you don’t switch driving seats in your sex life, and you go down stupid rabbit holes and miss the point.

And another thing. Every mother(fo) on this thread talking about mothers and Father’s Day did get something in exchange for sex - a CHILD.

My DH and I did not get kids from sex with each other, thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL@ AMEX autocorrect from sex. But yes, that too. Initiate sex and you may have him initiating gifts for you on the Amex too!!

I don’t need gifts in exchange for marital sex. I like the sex and am not a prostitute. However, I don’t want sex for a Mother’s Day gift.

You want jewelry for Mother’s Day! Do you need gifts in exchange for non marital sex?

No. I don’t need DH to do anything. I do like when he cooks shrimp gumbo. I have never received anything in exchange for sex and would be deeply insulted if something was offered.

+1 Way to make sex within a marriage more like a prostitute/john situation.

The original comment had an effing TYPO. The statement was “initiate sex more and DH may initiate more of the things you want. Chores, kid stuff, cooking - whatever. It supported reciprocity as an act of LOVE in a marriage.

The second comment was a CORRECTION of the typo and a joke about autocorrecting to AMEX. Nevertheless the autocorrect could still be apropos for some families, as a hot marital bed will have your DH/DW finding reason to whip out the AMEX. Maybe even if it’s only for Chinese food or a massage.

My last comment is that you all are foolish. Marriage is shared everything - how is it prostitution???! And if you are going to stand by that, how are you as a wife not as bad as a man seeking prostitution, by saying your DH must (fill in the blank) to get me to (full in the blank)?! Is that not pay for play?!

Either way it’s an effing barter system. Uptight prudes. This is why your men stray. You don’t listen to male advice, you don’t switch driving seats in your sex life, and you go down stupid rabbit holes and miss the point.

And another thing. Every mother(fo) on this thread talking about mothers and Father’s Day did get something in exchange for sex - a CHILD.

My DH and I did not get kids from sex with each other, thank you.

Well, you werent one of the mofos on the thread that was being referfenced then, now were you? Change every to nearly and be done with it already.

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Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t have to be either or people!!! You can give it up to your DH and have the kids show their love with gifts too.

I don’t understand these women who complain about men wanting sex. Don’t you enjoy it??

Maybe their husbands aren't that good in bed?

Up to a woman to own her own body. If a woman can’t masturbate to an orgasm leave her, she will never be happy.

Amazing to me how women will own their body for abortion and yet to have an orgasm it is up to someone else to magically push the imaginary switch

Most DCUM Women always have to blame someone else, sex is transactional to get money

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Anonymous wrote:Sex for Father's Day is weird to me, isn't it about kids celebrating yheit2 parents (or the other parent/spouse making an effort but pretending it's "from" the kid)?

It's about the kids and dad. Not dad's sexual needs or what he thinks he's entitled to from his wife.

are you seriously saying a husband, under normal circumstances, isn't entitled to have sex with his wife?

DP. No one is entitled to sex from anyone, even a spouse. Your attitude is more than a little rapey.

If a marital vow doesn’t allow entitlement to sex, then it doesn’t allow entitlement to monogamy - no?
Or are we splicing and dicing vows as we see fit?

Forsaking all others
To have
And to hold

Oh good, the marital rape advocate is back.

yay the over-dramatic Hyperbole queen is back!

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Anonymous wrote:if my husband wants sex and makes a move, he's more likely than not to get it. But it wouldn't be on the top of my list for Father's Day.

I mean, on mother's Day I don't expect him to do anything because I'm not his mother. It's up to the kid to do that.

And on Father's Day, I'm not going to be like hey you're such a good daddy here's a blowjob for you. That just feels icky but if he asked for sex like he would any other night: All good

Hahaha. Gross!

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Anonymous wrote:if my husband wants sex and makes a move, he's more likely than not to get it. But it wouldn't be on the top of my list for Father's Day.

I mean, on mother's Day I don't expect him to do anything because I'm not his mother. It's up to the kid to do that.

And on Father's Day, I'm not going to be like hey you're such a good daddy here's a blowjob for you. That just feels icky but if he asked for sex like he would any other night: All good

I wonder whether he would agree with the bolded statements. Judging by other DCUM husbands, probably not.

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Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t have to be either or people!!! You can give it up to your DH and have the kids show their love with gifts too.

I don’t understand these women who complain about men wanting sex. Don’t you enjoy it??

Maybe their husbands aren't that good in bed?

+10. If a dh is fit, well endowed, skilled and makes sure she O’s every time I think that dw’s are likely to want it a lot more often. Being assured good sex, even if it’s routine, certainly makes them want to maintain an active sex life.

[Anonymous]

It's so weird to pick specific days.


yes I want it Mother's Day, armistice day, fat tuesday, the feast of the assumption, the anniversary of the day we first met, leap day....

WTF... grow up.

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If I’m in the mood I don’t care what day it is. If I’m not in the mood I feel the same way. The exception is likely our anniversary and my husband’s birthday where if I’m not in the mood it always turns out well. I am thankful that my husbands bedroom skills still keep me in the mood after 27 years.

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Anonymous wrote:It's so weird to pick specific days.


yes I want it Mother's Day, armistice day, fat tuesday, the feast of the assumption, the anniversary of the day we first met, leap day....

WTF... grow up.

You forgot Arbor Day, Flag day, Pi Day, Chinese New Year, and Bastille Day. I'll alternate on the Equinoxes and Solstices. Absolutely can't forget Diwali.

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And the most important day... today!!

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Anonymous wrote:It's so weird to pick specific days.


yes I want it Mother's Day, armistice day, fat tuesday, the feast of the assumption, the anniversary of the day we first met, leap day....

WTF... grow up.

Many youngsters on the board. I always thought it should be a mutual thing, not one constantly trying to coerce the other. I find it odd there are so many rapey type relationships out there.

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Anonymous wrote:And the most important day... today!!

I imagine this is precisely what the husbands who want it "on Fathers Day" really mean.

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Are you saying that the fathers who want it as a present aren’t getting sex regularly. Maybe that’s why DH has never asked for a Father’s Day gift of sex.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you saying that the fathers who want it as a present aren’t getting sex regularly. Maybe that’s why DH has never asked for a Father’s Day gift of sex.

That is exactly the point. I am sure most married men are sex starved.