DH insulted DC

[Anonymous]

DC and I are deeply hurt emotionally after this. I’m so shocked that I can’t even write more sentences to describe all the feelings and the impact on our relationship from now on. Any ideas on consequences to H?
Of course he won’t receive any single Father’s Day gift. There’s no doubt about it.

[Anonymous]

What kind of insult are we talking about?

[Anonymous]

Dafuq?

You need to be more specific if you want any helpful response.

[Anonymous]

It happens. Parents make mistakes too. Holding on to a grudge will not help anything. Help them to work through it.

[Anonymous]

Well, without details, nobody knows which of you is the problem. Also, the idea that you need to 'discipline' your spouse is troubling in this context.

[Anonymous]

I can see how DC could be deeply hurt emotionally (depending on what happened). Why are you deeply emotionally hurt, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, without details, nobody knows which of you is the problem. Also, the idea that you need to 'discipline' your spouse is troubling in this context.

OP thinks there are 2 children in the family when in reality, there are 3.

[Anonymous]

The dramatic way you write makes me thing you are a narcissists. And rather than tell your DC that dad didn't mean that for the sake of your child, you are determined to make your kid hate his/her father. Unless you tell us what insult it was, I am going to assume that you made a mountain out of a mole hill.

[Anonymous]

Oooookay.

[Anonymous]

You don't impose "consequences" on your husband like he's a child. You don't "punish" him with no Father's Day gift.

It really matters what the insult was, BTW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It happens. Parents make mistakes too. Holding on to a grudge will not help anything. Help them to work through it.

This.

[Anonymous]

I’m OP. H is very impulsive. As he heard me reprimand DC for disrespecting me, H came to yell 3 insults (not the F, but other ones) to DC minutes encore heading to school. On the way to school DC cried and told me he is deeply hurt and that these insults will remain forever in his mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m OP. H is very impulsive. As he heard me reprimand DC for disrespecting me, H came to yell 3 insults (not the F, but other ones) to DC minutes encore heading to school. On the way to school DC cried and told me he is deeply hurt and that these insults will remain forever in his mind.

This isn't real.

[Anonymous]

Ok. So DH told your dc that he is a little shit? Deeply hurt, how old is DC? Is he as prone to drama and overreacting as you are, bcs he copies your behavior and because you made it into a huge deal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don't impose "consequences" on your husband like he's a child. You don't "punish" him with no Father's Day gift.

It really matters what the insult was, BTW.

He must stop before I grab his belongings and throw them away. I some ways he behaves like an impulsive orange face DT.