Anybody join due date groups on Facebook? These women are something...

[Anonymous]

I mean I get that they are a global group so you get all kinds but I have never joined one before (and this is my 3rd kid) and so far this week:

Two different women sounding pitiful (claiming they haven't eaten in 3 days etc...) in order to get people to feel bad and send them money.

People having their 6th, 7th, 8th etc...

18 year olds

People who literally can't spell or speak in grammatically correct sentences.

People naming their kids just straight made up terrible names.

It's too much.

[Anonymous]

Yikes. I’m in a group for each of my kids with 30 or so other women. It’s been awesome. But I’ve heard he mega groups are horrible

[Anonymous]

Babycenter served that purpose for me!

[Anonymous]

The names are killing me in my FB due date group. SO BAD. Just in the last name post I saw a Trinity, Harleigh Lynn, Jacklynn, Karsyn, Evryn, Drydyn, Jaxxyon, Emberleigh, and Draco. Not even sure if some of them are boys or girls. And yes, there's a bunch of begging for money/donations, tons of sob stories, so many hot mess relationships. There really are two Americas ...

[Anonymous]

Sounds like babycenter! That place is insane and makes me worry for the next generation. No one is married, no one works (sah girlfriends?), and they have too many kids.

[Anonymous]

My cousin just named her son Cashton. I can’t even.

[Anonymous]

It became a good way to check my privilege and be grateful for what I have!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It became a good way to check my privilege and be grateful for what I have!

It’s privilege to wait to have kids until you’re married and financially stable? No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It became a good way to check my privilege and be grateful for what I have!

It is a privilege to not name your child Presleigh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It became a good way to check my privilege and be grateful for what I have!

It’s privilege to wait to have kids until you’re married and financially stable? No

It's simply reflective of the status you're born with. You may think it's normal to be expected to go to college but in many parts of the US, that would be abnormal. That's just the way it is.

[Anonymous]

My birth month groups have eventually moved to FB from other websites, so the groups are smaller and its easier to identify catfishing. It's been after months of weeding out who is actually participating, not whining or fishing for money, and not doing drive-by posts of "omg, I think this is a girl, what do you think?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It became a good way to check my privilege and be grateful for what I have!

It’s privilege to wait to have kids until you’re married and financially stable? No

It's simply reflective of the status you're born with. You may think it's normal to be expected to go to college but in many parts of the US, that would be abnormal. That's just the way it is.

It has nothing to do with going to college. It's having the common sense to wait until you can take care of kid and provide them a stable home, before having them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like babycenter! That place is insane and makes me worry for the next generation. No one is married, no one works (sah girlfriends?), and they have too many kids.

I run in DCUM type circles and my partner and I are happily together but not married. I guess good to know people are silently looking down on me? But then again who am I to judge judging because everything else described sounds quite trashy to me. Begging for money on the internet especially.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My birth month groups have eventually moved to FB from other websites, so the groups are smaller and its easier to identify catfishing. It's been after months of weeding out who is actually participating, not whining or fishing for money, and not doing drive-by posts of "omg, I think this is a girl, what do you think?"

I am a PP - I tried to get used to The Bump because I posted on The Knot back in the day when people still used it. I couldn’t get used to the message board structure over there though. It seemed very “Web 2.0”/mid-2000’s. And they had a lot of weird unwritten board rules about stuff and everyone seemed to know each other despite most people being first time moms? Like you can’t say “baby dust,” which I agree is a stupid phrase but it’s somehow highly offensive over there. It did seem to be a much more educated and higher-class crowd overall but also trying too hard to come off as smart or “snarky.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like babycenter! That place is insane and makes me worry for the next generation. No one is married, no one works (sah girlfriends?), and they have too many kids.

I run in DCUM type circles and my partner and I are happily together but not married. I guess good to know people are silently looking down on me? But then again who am I to judge judging because everything else described sounds quite trashy to me. Begging for money on the internet especially.

Seriously? There’s literally no way you didn’t already know this before reading this thread.